My brother likes put both his hands on his hips when he is talking to people. Does it look gay? Do men do that? He puts his by his knees in a crossed position when he is sitting. Does that look gay? Or is he feminine? He is straight & has a girl friend. In some of his pictures he's having one hand in his hipps. When we get together for holidays I don't want people thinking he is gay. He also had his ears pierced when he was in high school. I care about my brother that's why I am asking this question. Thank you.
2006-12-04 07:08:54 · 20 answers · asked by Need H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
~It definitely looks gay.. lol~
2006-12-04 07:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
hey! you sound like a really caring brother, good for you! there is allot of gestures a feminine person will make that a gay person will also make. standing with his hands on his hips is NOT considered gay! On the other hand, putting his hands across on his knees might seem abit gay. Although you should not be worried about his image to other people. WHY? If any guy/girl see's that he has a girlfriend they will realize straight away that he is a straight guy. DONT WORRY ABOUT THIS TOO MUCH;) take care!
2006-12-04 15:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by $u$kin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those actions are pretty feminine. Suggest other ways like putting his hands in his pockets. Your brother may not be gay but saying that he has a girlfriend doesn't prove anything. Ear piercings are fine unless there is only one and its on the "gay side"( Left, I think)
2006-12-04 15:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by fudgemommie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My brother recently told the family that he's gay. Before he told us I thought I'd have had a problem with it, but I'm completely fine with it now, actually, I have been since he told us. Nothing changed between the two of us, we still get on grand and he's still my brother. You say you care about your brother, then I don't think you should comment on his mannerisms to his face, if he is gay he'll come to it on his own terms, nothing you say or do will help him in that situation.
Do you think he is happy with his girlfriend? Some people can just be a bit camp, or eccentric and it can have nothing to do with their sexual preference...
2006-12-04 15:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by koka_lover 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Personal manliness is a thing we determine. It was said of either General MacArthur or Eisenhower " The General thinks with his hips. " Look at all the cinema role models equated with manliness and you'll find a few that were anything but. Sodomites are an aberration. A perversion. This is something learnt. Not something you are born with.
2006-12-04 15:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks gay but it doesn't men that i mean your hip can just be hurting plus many men do feminine stuff for example some cross their legs to some people believe that's gay but i think it looks professional on guys weird but it does
2006-12-04 15:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by gods_1follower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all - MIND YOUR BUSINESS. Secondly, WHAT do YOU care if anyone thinks he's gay? That's not a big deal so you shouldn't care about it. What if he IS gay? I hope you will still care about him. Seriously, you should mind your own business and get a life. Maybe then you won't be so damn concerned with where he places his hands or what anyone thinks!
2006-12-04 17:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For somebody who claims to care about their brother you sound awfully shallow to me. So what if he puts his hands on his hips. He's clearly not concerned that he might look gay, why should you be.
2006-12-04 15:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think that this looks gay. Honestly i am gay and i put my hands on my hips but not just because I'm gay. This question was so stereotypical..
2006-12-04 15:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by Michael 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If his girl friend is named Bubba...thats GAY. If he is wearing a dress while his hands are on his hips...to each his own but GAY. Does he talk of a significant other...thats GAY. Are you afriad of you sexuality... it not catching so just live your life and love him as he is.
2006-12-04 15:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really because many exercises require you to put your hands on your hips.
2006-12-04 15:31:59 · answer #11 · answered by TunaFiasco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋