I 'met' this bloke online. He is 4 ys younger than me and he seems nice. Not seen a picture but I am dead open with him about sex ans stuff. He has a gf who is travelling around the world for six months. He sometimes says 'hi' if I'm online but most of the time he makes the effort. I have told him loads about me and intimate stuff like sexual fantasies. He shows me clips of sex. He really turned me on last night and asked me to stick my fingers in my ***** . Is he being unfaithful to his gf? He says she would not mind. He is going to see her in january. unsure if he is being unfaithful or just missimg sex with his gf? Is he being unfaithful by being intimate online with another girl. He has seen a pic of me but I have not seen a pic of him.
2006-12-04 07:05:29 · 32 answers · asked by Blue_Bell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah he is.
2006-12-04 07:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not real, it is not good for you or him mentally. If he is the least bit genuine taht is. Have more pride in yourself and get out there and meet a real person. As to being unfaithful...it is the emotional betrayal to the girlfriend wife or whatever that stinks. So many marieds latch onto this as a form of release and you may just have been duped by one.
2006-12-04 08:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because either he does not have one or he is married. What other than his age do you know about him. You seem to be the one spilling all the secrets and fantasies and sending a picture he could be any age and indeed any sex. For all you know you could be one of many on the net that helps him get his rocks off. Be an adult and think about it, even an internet relationship should be two way, if its not, why not?
2006-12-04 07:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say this behavior is unacceptable and on the road to being unfaithful. I would be very upset if my husband/boyfriend/fiance was carrying on like this while I was gone. Not very fair for her, I'm sure she doesn't know. Best of luck!
2006-12-04 07:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Brandi J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, you need to be careful, and if he has not shown you a picture of him, come on now, he may be as old as your father, just block him. and you better be sure of who you are talking to. I am sure you have heard of all the online stories! Of course he is being unfaithful to his girlfriend, for all you know, his girlfriend is in the same house with him. (smile)
2006-12-04 07:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was dating either of you I'd dump you for this kind of carry on. So I'd say yes it is being unfaithful. If you'd accept your fella doing the same with a girl then you don't think it is. You decide.
2006-12-04 07:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Thinker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest hes either 1: a dirty old man having a w*nk wile hes emailing u. or hes 2: a guy whos bored and sex deprived missing his girlfriend. if my b/f was doing that i would chop his finger off. But if your enjoying it carry on your not doing nothing wrong ur just avin fun. Be carefull thou these situations can lead out of hand. p.s get a pic of him
2006-12-04 07:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by kim s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this stupid or what? how can u just trust someone online when u never seen the pics or cam? besides believing the stories they tell u? im sure u will provide ur credit card info to him when he ask u to. Goodluck digger
2006-12-04 07:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by BeautyBreak H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bottom line is when you're online you have no clue who is on the other end, or if it's even a man for that matter. If you don't have good feelings about it, there are so many people online - move on.
2006-12-04 07:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mia S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly if i was his girlfriend, I would be very angry - put yourself in her position, what would your limitations be?
Can i please also advise you to be really careful - i am not against you having fun but you have no idea that he is who he says he is. If i was you i would put this experience down to having had some fun - but i would advise that you try and distance yourself from him now. Please try and remember how this would make you feel if it was your boyfriend and another girl. And please dont give him any contact numbers - i have been in similiar situ and it went horribly wrong.
now go and find yourself a nice REAL man who will treat you and only you like a princess!
Take care
2006-12-04 07:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by lady.x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this - definately yes. And since you haven't seen a pic of him I would disconnect now and get on with your own life and stop fuelling his dispicable urges.
2006-12-04 07:31:53 · answer #11 · answered by spear_1021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋