My Mom and Dad have decied I can't see or talk to my boyfriend anymore after my Mom walked in on me(16) and my boyfriend(17) having sex. I mean it isn't my fault my parents got home from vacation a day early and tried to surprise me at the wrong time ! They are so stupid, I can't just not see my boyfriend because we have been together for 3 years and known each other since we were like in preschool (our families were friends).
This is so stupid his parents didn't say he couldn't see me and they know what happened (my Mom told them)!
First my Mom walks in on me, then her and my dad ignore me for a week after that, and now they say I can't see my boyfriend.
2006-12-04 07:03:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I said sorry like a ton of times but they don't care.
2006-12-04 07:12:26 · update #1
They are evil, I can't wait to turn 17 in two weeks then I only have 1 more year to have to deal with them !
2006-12-04 07:13:58 · update #2
They are so mean, I am not even a bad person, I mean I have a 4.2 GPA, I have a job, and I always listen to them. I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs I just had sex with my boyfriend !
2006-12-04 07:17:21 · update #3
I think you need to understand there position before you can improve your position. If you are old enough to have sex, maybe it's time to have that conversation with your parents. Find out what really upsets them. Are they scared that you will get pregnant? Maybe an STD? Maybe they don't understand why you are having sex? It's time to be honest and have a heart to heart. Also how does your boyfriend's parents feel about this development? Once everyone starts talking about it, I'm sure a solution both of you can live with will work out. Good luck!
2006-12-04 07:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop blaming your parents for something you and your boyfriend has done wrong.
You were given a trust by your parents and you damaged it and so it is going to take a while to get it back...that is important...trust.
Have you ever thought that you could have gotten pregnant and then all the hopes and dreams you and your parents have had for your future is gone in one moment of sex.
It looks like your boyfriends parents don't care as much for him as your parents do for you.
Have you even thought of apologizing to your parents for what you did...your boyfriend should also apologize to them. You want to be responsible enough for having sex in their home you need to then grow up enough and apologize to them and then sit back and wait.
2006-12-04 15:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by spider 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down there just upset cuz there old school and dont understand premartial sex at 16 years old your young real young but just give your parents time too cool off and calm down once you calm down you and your boyfriend need to sit down and talk to your parents and explain to them how you two feel about each other but let them cool down first other wise it will blow up in your face....do what ever your doing to stay in touch with your boyfriend cuz i know your going behind your parents back just dont make them any more mad than they alrady are so be carful in what ever your doing
2006-12-04 15:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Untill you are paying part of the bills, it's their house and you violated them by doing that, so unfortunately you should just accept your punishment. Take it in stride, and try to learn from it, your parents only want what's best for you.
2006-12-04 15:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u really love run away from home marry him **** hom like 60 times that is wat i would do with mine
2006-12-04 15:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by Miley C 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋