do blokes liek it whaen a woman phones them everyday. or is it best not to contact him too often.
2006-12-04 07:00:17 · 27 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play it cool girl. It does depend how long you been together but let him do the calling, you'll feel better if he contacts you and realise that he does care and is interested. Have a think why you need to be so clingy, maybe it's because you're worried that he won't call so you make the first move. Step back and let him do some chasing.
2006-12-04 07:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Velma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. I'm definitely no professional on the matter, but I think at the beginning of a new relationship it's best to let him chase you a little. So don't call him all the time. Let him pick up the phone and call you instead. Once you guys have been dating for a little while and have gotten comfortable with each other and in your relationship, those types of "games" don't need to continue, and there's nothing wrong with calling him to say hi, or that you're thinking about him, or whatever.
2006-12-04 07:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by Skyler789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't like it when girls call them too often. it takes away the chase for them and makes them tire of you quickly. Also, you really know if a guy likes you if you give him the space to come to you. If you feel clingy or like you 'have to' call him, resist the urge. Maybe talk to someone/a therapist about why you feel the need to cling on. It can represent a distrust that left to his own devices, he won't want you so you feel you have to ensure you're in contact all the time to reassure you. But the opposite will happen and he will think you're not giving him space. All men, bless 'em, need space. When they have the space to choose to come to you, they feel in charge of the hunt/chase again. Btw, same applies for long term relationships/marriage. Gotta give the guy a bit of space - they're just hardwired that way. Best of luck and be nice to yourself. You must learn to find some trust in men - and your ability to keep their interest in a relationship. Talk to someone to help yourself - don't sit alone and let these thoughts fester - and don't just keep calling otherwise he WILL run away.xx
2006-12-04 07:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by Emushka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u mean, cause I have the same problem..when I like a guy I go all clingy and horrible.
For my recent love interest it was a lot of hard work to try and not be too clingy, but i still managed it :)
Dont call him everyday - more like every few days, or even a few times a week.
Perhaps even call him when you know he's out? So then HE can call YOU back, and you wont be the one doing all the chasing.
Good luck, and just think before you call him/sms him/etc :)
xxjes
2006-12-04 07:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by JOANNABANANA ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find another interest as you need to focus on other things besides your bloke. Like the lady says you think that life as you know it will end if you don't keep phoning him.
Look at it like this there is only so much one can say. So make life more interesting by not phoning each day.
2006-12-04 07:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the relationship you have. Does he call you as much? Try calling every other day and see what happens.
Just make sure you are not doing all the romancing.
In my last relationship we called each other everyday for 10 months and then it weaned itself off.
2006-12-04 07:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by Bajanqt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think theres anything wrong with that but that also depends on how long you talk to him........and if you talk to him for a really long time he could get bored and be i guess"un-interested"........guys need space from their g/f's every once in a while and girls dont like that because it seems as if they dont like you anymore and that is totally not the answer..........sometimes girls get attatched WAY too quickly and the guy doesnt usually like that........like I said he needs time to ya know hang out w/ his friends and not be totally hung up in a relationship.
2006-12-04 07:10:18 · answer #7 · answered by giggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I talk to my b/f everyday because we never run out of stuff to say. and it really isn't clingy it is clingy when you talk about them 24/7 and always by there side
2006-12-04 07:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey..please stop being clingy....Men HATE it.
Never call a man more than he calls you. That is so annoying.
For something to do, why don't you just get a hobby and do something you really like, like maybe dancing classes??
2006-12-04 07:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by Joni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clingy is bad.
guys like a bit of space. don't act too cool tho or he might think you've gone off him.
try sending a short text instead of calling everyday.
2006-12-04 07:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋