Is it okay to tell God when you are angry at him?

Question

I don't mean anything blasphemous. I'm saying to express how you truly feel rather than lie to him and yourself. I think honesty is always the best way to reslove a problem. I know I have a problem! and my problem is anger! And I have criticized the critics. I'm the first to admit that I am wrong for doing this! A bad experience in the church has imbedded something in my mind that doesn't simply "go away" I wish it where that easy! I truly believe that a man or woman can be saved on their own. But its always best to find a good loving church! All of us desire to be loved! Even the most stubborn arrogant people! My view on some has led me astray! But its so hard for me to overlook people who insult the gospel by being cruel to others! So mabe I have spent to much time trying to be God rather than be like God! I'm no judge either! I Desire the closest relatiionship possible to God! But I have to get over my temper! Its caused alot of problems!

Answer 1

That's like asking how does Santa get into houses with no chimney. Do what you want.

Answer 2

I read your paragraph and think you are a very wise person - you just don't know yet. :) This is the wisest thing you have said: "So mabe I have spent to much time trying to be God rather than be like God!" If only a lot of people would come to the same conclusion!

Here is something that might help you not be so angry. Remember that when people seem stubborn and arrogant to YOU, they are really just struggling too, stuck on the path of their own lives, doing what they think is their best. If you focus a lot on what THEY are doing, you will go nuts. Instead, put your energy into YOUR life, and your relationship with God. Leave the faults of others in God's hands - it isn't your responsibility to change them. Let your own growth be your only concern. If you do, you will grow in acceptance of others with their faults (as you learn about your own) and it won't be so hard to be around them.

I rant at God too. I'm sure he is quite amused. I'm also sure he doesn't mind. Anger is human - and fine - unless it goes so far as to harm someone else or one's own life quality. You have to stay in control of your anger - not the other way around.

God loves us, and loves all our 'faces'. He wants to hear what you really feel. It's always safe to take it to him.

Answer 3

I think what it comes down to is understanding that even men of the cloth are capable of doing terrible things, that are so magnified because you least expect it from such people.
They should be stronger than that.
Well they are just humans filled with weakness.

Id say you are perhaps mad at a situation that occurrd, and you cant help but aim that at GOD whom youve wanted to remain loyal to. And its with your obedience you fight with, as you wouldnt want to displease the GOD you so much believe in.

Im sorry for your plight.
And Ive come across many a men who as result of tragedy in their life have had their pain push them against the GOD they believed in. Men who lost friends in war, woman who lost their men, and people who lost family.

I doubt you could disguise your hearts pain from GOD nomatter how hard you tried. And because I believe in GOD I can say HE understands your anger.
HE has not forgotten you. HE will not forget you.

And unfortunately only time will heal the wounds that have pained you.

How to reslve the situation is a tough one. As I am not walking in your shoes. I have had my own pain with family members who were less than honourable people. And there has not been a woman Ive met that hasnt had some circumstance happen to them that was truly terrible and uncalled for.

I wish I had an answer for you, but best I can say is that I sympathize with you. Just as no woman, no child should be harmed by the doings of wicked men. And theres nothing anyone can say that can take away that pain.

My hope is that with time, you can try to make the most out of this life. Help others goign through the same, or even better prevent this from happening to as many others.

Just as I can see the reasons for your anger, I know GOD above can see more. And HE'll understand.

P.S.
Remember, the goal of every religious group should be to find that the True Church of GOD is within ones heart, should you find that on your own..even the better for you

Answer 4

Sure, it's ok. He has broad shoulders so He can handle it. And by the way, He knows what you are thinking, so you can't make Him think you are ok with something when in your heart you're mad about it. And don't ever expect to find a perfect church. If there was a perfect church out there just for perfect people, you wouldn't be allowed in the door and neither would I. It sounds to me like you are looking for a loving, forgiving type of church but you are not willing or able to be loving and forgiving yourself. Just remember, the way we measure is the way it will be measured back to us. Don't give up; keep working on it.

Answer 5

revelations...end of times......and many will come forward to confuse you and lead you astray. many false prophets will attempt to speak my word and win you over and pull off miraculous stunts.

do not be fool my child as I am the only Lord, the only God and all man will know when I return yet no man knows of the date nor hour, not even my own son.

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a church does not mean you are saved or anything...its nothing more than a gathering place. I do not go to church as I do not believe in a lot that they do, say or actions they show. But I believe and do it alone. As your relationship between you and God is just that...between the two of you...no one else...not even the church.

Answer 6

God loves it when we let him know when we're annoyed, so go ahead go on a rant, be honest share your feelings with him. it's not a sin it's developing a relationship with him. I've had bad experiences with Church's too, it's taken me ages to find a one where i feel loved and valued, but keep looking for a church there's some really ace ones out there and stick a one where you feel comfortable at and where you can grow in Christ. it would be ace if we could get to heaven on our own, but we are not good enough, there's so much sin in our lives even if we act good we've always done something wrong, but thankfully Jesus died for us so we can have a relationship with God

Answer 7

Try to remember that when others don't act in the best way that God will deal with them in His time. You can always tell God what is going on in your heart. He can feel your pain and anger and rejection you have experienced in your life. He was there when it happened. He wants you to be honest with Him.

Talk to Him with all the honesty and pain staking truth in your heart. People aren't perfect and those who act and live out evil's will, will be handle by the most rightous and holy.

Answer 8

Well A church is there to provide guidence to those who need it.
perhaps you have not yet found the church that is right for you.
I believe that if you have faith, nothing shall be impossibe for you.
Try not so much overlooking people who anger you, but try talking to them and see if you can first try to understand their point of view. Be open to the world around you, and you may then have a lighter heart for it.

Answer 9

Would you feel comfortable telling any good friend that you are angry with him/her? Most likely not. So, why would you be afraid to tell your BEST friend? God loves you and nothing can change that. Many prophets in the Old Testament expressed anger at God. He didn't smite them. Usually, just the contrary.

Answer 10

I think it is fine to tell God your mad at him. There were many people in the bible that had less than loving feelings for their creator at one time or another. Even his son said "God God why have you forsaken me?" However, I find the root of your problem to be with man. You have to remember what the bible says about this. Churches will never be perfect because they consist of in-perfect people. Man will always let you down. God will never let you down. As soon as you realize this ...you will be free.

Answer 11

If something really bad happens or if you're just mad at Him, pray and tell Him what's bothering you. Ask Him to give you peace at mind so you can get on with your life. Pray for the people who insult the gospel to realize what they're doing isn't cool. God hears your prayers.