we are only inthe 9th and 10th grade he has asked me like 3 time do you think he really wants to some day?
2006-12-04 06:56:21 · 27 answers · asked by militarychick_818 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My bf asked me on our second date and I said yes, but we were quite a bit older.
High School and College are the best times to explore what love is all about and I'm not talking about what goes on between the sheets. It's isn't all about the passion you feel for each other. That passion does fade and can grow into a wonderful comfortableness that you feel with each other. Getting married is a committment to growing old and wrinkled together, helping each other when sick, when broke, when the baby threw up all over your suit jacket. Changing diapers, walking sick babies at all hours of the day and night. Watching your teenage children come home stoned from something they found in their best friend's mom's medicine cabinet, passing out on the kitchen floor and cracking a few ribs and teeth in the process.
If you can deal with all that stuff now and can financially support each other and the children that probably will come from your union than yes, accept his proposal but in most states you can get married until you legally adults.
2006-12-04 07:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Some Day" are your key words here. Sit down and have a serious talk. Start with making sure the only reason he's saying this isn't because he wants to get you in the sack. In fact, I'd advise you to wait on that little aspect until you're much older and married. If you pull that "card," and he still wants to date you, go for it. Enjoy eachother's company, but keep in mind that when you go away to college, you'll have a lot more dating options. Don't make a serious commitment at your age!
2006-12-04 16:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen when I was in 9th grade! As we grew up, I concluded that I couldn't stand him and we broke up in 10th grade. Trust me, you don't want to be locked down like that right now. High school is too much fun!
2006-12-04 16:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by SamIam82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are way to young, so much to see and do still. Get your Education and Get a good job Before you even Consider Getting Married. Marriage Doesnt come free theres bills that have to be paid, Groceries that need to be bought, Alot of things come into play. Study hard Get your Diploma and then your Degree. Get yourself settled before even considering that next H U G E step in life!!
2006-12-04 15:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
getting married that early may not be the best idea right now.
1.) your too young
2.)you havnt had enough time to explore all your buisness and relationship oppertunities
3.) if you just started dating he may just be acting on a spur of the moment kinda thing
i mean sweetie, you may want to get married and im not trying to go all bad on you but you need to think about about first of all your financial needs, if you get married you may want to get your own place. you also need parental concent at this age to get married. + not to be gross but if you do get your own place, it could lead to things such as pregnency. plus if you see eachother in thehall there is the whole pda( public display of affection)situation.plus wont people find out. think about waiting until after hs or collage when you have your lives planned out
2006-12-04 22:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by rubygirl0714 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not likely percentage-wise, but it's possible and it's happened before.
Don't get into the habit of listening to other people, such as the people on this board. If you do, they could wind up ruining your life. They don't know everything, and they could not get up under sworn testimony right now and say that your guy is not the most decent in the world.
2006-12-04 14:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is you are too young, I think is you don't see yourself with him for the rest of your live, you should finish that relationship, I think you should give your self the opportunity to know more about the world before getting married. if you are meant to be together you will be but right now you are way too young to get in such big commitment.
2006-12-04 15:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by Angela Vicario 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 1/2 months at that age is to early to really know what you want just tell him you love him but its way to early to give him a honest answer.....tell him to ask you in 4 more years and if you 2 still love each other that much then go for it ,,,,, right out of high school is still to early you have alot of exploring life and what you want to do with it .....good luck
2006-12-04 15:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by just a mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you want? Is marriage or education a priority?Is he a stable person? What do you know about him and what does he know about you to even want to think marriage at this time? people have to be friends before they can be true lovers. fall in friendship first then when you realize your compatibility level, go ahead and fall in love. There is nothing wrong with long term goals; and marriage should be one of them considering your age and educational level at this time.
2006-12-04 15:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by Aoiffe337 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww you little cute things.. he may really love you now, and he may love you even more in the future, but you two are still to young to even consider commitment. live your life, enjopy being a teenager while you can. there is plent of time for the two of you to decide to start a family and get married.
finish your studies now. get some good education. get good jobs.. then you can discuss the rest ;)
2006-12-04 15:04:48 · answer #10 · answered by Maximus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋