is he in to me or not?

Question

I have recently started seeing a guy, we have been out on 3 dates, and have been flirting for a while now.....before we went out on the first date, i seen him everyday, when he would come in to my work, since then its been every other day that he comes in! the last 2 dates we had, we went to dinner and then went back to his house and watched movies....we cuddled on the couch, but there was NOTHING sexual, besides a few kisses. He tells me that he thinks i am really beautiful and that he had a great time! but yet when it come down to calling me, he dont! any time a phone call is started, its by me! I make sure i dont call everyday or numorus times aday, to where it doesnt look like i am a phsyco!! he is always the perfect gentleman when we go out, opens all the doors, and comes in to my house when he picks me up and walks me to the dorr when he drops me off, while we are out, he holds my hand or wraps his arm around me? I guess my question is....is he in to me or just acting like

Answer 1

I can see why you're having trouble with the issue. He seems very considerate and attentive when you are together....but then become elusive and doesn't call. I'd suggest you give it time. I'd also suggest that you not call him....wait and see how long it takes him to call you. If he doesn't call then he is not making an effort to arrange for the two of you to spend time together. You shouldn't be the only one making an effort. It's a good sign that he is taking things slow and not trying to kick start a physical relationship yet....so I'd give it more time. Good Luck

Answer 2

I think so but I am not sure. I have never called a guy for a date. Why don't you put this question to him. Hey give me a call if you want to go out again because I'm not going to call you untill I see your phone dials out.

Answer 3

Maybe he is nervous. Sometimes guys can find themselves unable to make that first move (even though it's something as simple as a phone call).