does it sound competely insane to marry some one you knew from 10 yrs ago ,and dated , but they have been back together for almost 2 months and they are getting married dec.14, they are in love, but ppl doubt that , i dont think love has a time on it ...
2006-12-04 06:54:47 · 13 answers · asked by Melindakaye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
love doesn't have a time on it at all....
my b/f i dated back in middle school (18yrs ago) we were together for 2yrs and would have stayed together longer if he had not acted a fool back then lol.....but 16yrs later after that we are together again and in more love with each other than we have ever been anyone. we have talked about marriage and kids...but we are not in a rush....we'll get there. but i say YES its very possible!!
if they feel its right they should go for it! they have to live with it...not everyone else.
2006-12-04 07:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have gotten back together with people from many years ago a couple of times. For me, it didnt end up working out, but i attribute that to the fact that as people age, their quirks and habits (good and bad) can intensify. What they need to be aware of is why they broke up in the first place, because that will be a problem again. If you were 15 and dumped a guy who lied to you, dont be 25 and divorcing a guy who is cheating on you.
But as a rule, i would say that if they want it to work it can. Maybe they jsut werent ready for each other yet! wish them luck.
2006-12-04 15:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by ShavenLlama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right. That little feeling in the pit of your stomach that tells you YES! (or NO! lol). I met my husband and after 2 months he wanted to marry me. I said no..lol. We waited a year and he asked again, I said yes and we have been married going on 9 yrs this Dec. 20th. He knew from the start that he wanted to marry me. And we hadnt known each other prior...God places those that He wants us to marry in our lives. Sometimes, we pass that opportunity up and it comes back around full circle...take the chance!
2006-12-04 15:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by jesus_is_my_prozac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they see one another in a different light, with the passage of time and experience, and are lucky enough that they are both still free. How many people realise with hindsight too late that they met the right person years ago?
2006-12-04 15:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sangmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the rush? Why not wait 6-12mths and see if it really is love. If it is then go for it, but if marrage is rushed upon and it wasn't ment to be, it will be a long hard road of divorce. Take my word for it, it takes a lot of time and a lot of money even if you have no property etc.....be carefull
2006-12-04 15:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Army Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not the one getting married, what does it really matter to you. If your friends are happy and think they're madly in love, let them. If you are the one getting married and you're questioning the relationship, then it would probably be better to post-pone the wedding until you're sure that you want to get married.
2006-12-04 14:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by kc_warpaint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married the girl I met when I was 14. They said it would not last. 33 years later I think I may tell them I told you so.
2006-12-04 14:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. completely insane, and will contribute to the 50% divorce rate.
2006-12-04 14:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're right--love doesn't have an expiration limit on it.
I say "SHOULD" !
2006-12-04 14:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats crazy ......... you need time to know all those habits that you love and the ones that drive you nuts ............
2006-12-04 15:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by just a mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋