have you ever had a crush in someone and the person said no not looking for relationship and for some reason, u guys end up dating?
what u think was the key that made brought u guys together as couple?
please
2006-12-04 06:52:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he really did like you but didnt want a relationship at the time. ever thought about that?
2006-12-04 06:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by bobbys_baby_88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...maybe at the moment neither of you were looking into getting a relationship, but you were drawn to each other...and it couldn't be fought. They say "Love is Friendship on Fire"...so in may cases opposites attract...or you can be exactly alike...whatever it is...you should just go with the flow...don't necessarily think about having a relationship...is there nothing wrong with enjoying someones company first then from there anything can happen..
2006-12-04 06:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 03:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you just explained me when you asked this question. I didn't want a relationship for a long time. Then a old friend of mine popped back into my life in May of this year, I just disregarded him as just trying to hang out with me cause we were friends but, nope he had a crush on me. What helped us become a partnership was our friendship. I always thought of him as a good guy, good looking, intelligent, blah, blah, blah but as I said at that time I didn't want a relationship.
At this time, I didn't want one with anyone because I had been disappointed in the past by people I dated etc. I had been mostly disappointed because it seemed like none of them really had their life together but wanted to feed off mine. Everyone always seemed to play it off like they did have it together and it always seemed like problems would begin once I got to know them very well. So, I gave up and soon as I did, HE walked into my life.
I truly feel like his being real with me as being my friend helped alot. There was no B.S. involved and since then, has not been.
2006-12-04 07:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by ▒♥▒♥▒♥▒♥▒™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be that even though you or the other person doesnt want a relationship(long term) there was probably a physical attraction there and dating will explore to see if there is a stronger attraction that may end up in a meaningful relationship - but be warned - sometimes it IS only physical
2006-12-04 06:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I'm in the same boat right now my bf i meet 9 mount ago said he don't want a relationship so i Say OK and i dated other guys me and him have so much in common and we make each other laugh he dos thing i like and i did thing that he loved he started to fall in love with me and he started to get jealous of me going out with other guys i told him well we are not together why you care. and one night i told him im going on a date he kept on texing me the hole night and when i got home he called me saying h ow was your date i says fine and he Say he could not sleep he is thinking of me all the time and he asked me to be his gf and ever since i been with him
2006-12-04 06:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is exactly how me & my wife hooked up 20 years ago.
I didn't want a "physical" relationship.......only wanted to be "platonic" (had just broken up with "Wife #1").
Long story short, she & I turned out to be lovers, and our relationship has actually gotten BETTER with age.
Truth be told, it was our common interests and intellectual stimulation that made us compatible. There is no such thing as "Love At First Sight"
2006-12-04 06:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by dj_mc_entertainment 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows but if there not looking for a realationship at the time chance are they still arnt so be careful dont get your heart broke
2006-12-04 06:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
This reminds me of a Indian movie song 'na na karte han tu me se karbethe' - translation: wanted to say no, no but end up saying yes to you.
2006-12-04 07:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by apple2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I liked a girl in college, but we agreed not to date because her brother was a friend of mine.. but then I bought her a rose and we started dating anyway..
2006-12-04 06:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋