There is this girl I like and I know she likes me too, but when I told her that I like her she stopped talking to me and hasn't talked to me for 2 weeks. Whenever I ask her about it all she tells me is that she has "reasons". What could these reasons be? What should I do?
2006-12-04 06:51:19 · 19 answers · asked by Boris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i always get really shy when ever a guy i like tell me he likes me and i distence myself from him. because i don't know how to act around him any more i will be worrying about if i am acting like total fool.
it could also mean she does not like u and just want to be friends if
A)she ignores u
B) trys to make conversations short with just 1 word answers
C) and always seem to say "i don't know" meaning leave me alone
2006-12-04 06:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by zoey z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are still pretty young. Best thing to do is ask her, when she is alone and not surrounded by people, if she has a minute to talk to you. If she does, explain to her that you are confused, and you would like to know if the reason she cant see you are things that you can change. It might be family, it might be friends it could be she is dating someone else.. If she says she cant or wont talk to you, move on my man... True love does not happen only once in life.. IF you love true, no matter how many people you love, it can be considered a true love. What ever you do, remeber you cant make someone love you all you can do is love yourself. Dont worry, you'll be fine with or without her!
2006-12-04 06:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by phluttr_bye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her the reasons. Tell her you are just curious as to why she won't talk to you since you told her that you liked her and want to know her reasons. All you can do.
2006-12-04 06:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i know what she's talking about.... i think she's afraid of getting hurt in a relaationship. if you've been known as a "playa" in the past this is probably part of it.. just find a way to tell her not to worry and that she's special and you would never do anything to hurt her. if she still doesn't come, just wait and try to gain her trust. don't go out with anyone until she learns to trust you. if you do, that's gonna hurt her, and we don't want that now, do we? ; D good luck
2006-12-04 07:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by nanerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now she could just be really shocked or really busy with other things. This may be huge news to her and she might need time to herself to think this over. But if you get too worried about it just try to talk to her about how your feeling and that your a little worried about it.
2006-12-04 06:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she dose not feel the same to tell you or that its not right by not talking to you cause that also means she dose not like in that way...but anyhow dont waste your time on someone who dose not like you....another communication communication...ask her to tell you the reasons...its not that hard...but GOOD LUCK>>>
2006-12-04 06:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by luciouskisss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this person is playing games. I hate games, I never win. Maybe I don't know the rules.
2006-12-04 06:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, and let her go and leave her alone. She does not like you and the reasons are simple. she does not like you. Get over it
2006-12-04 06:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just fall back and see where it goes. she either has a boyfriend already or just not into you either way let her make the next move from here on in . this way there is no room for confusion.
2006-12-04 06:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, she is scared or not ready for all this.
You should do nothing. Let her get her mind together on this matter and let her come to you. No one likes pushy.
2006-12-04 06:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by ▒♥▒♥▒♥▒♥▒™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋