At first it was okay because I hug all of his family members when we visit each other but now we live closer to them so we see him more often and he has to give me a good hug every time. How do I break him out of that without being mean?
2006-12-04 06:47:04 · 10 answers · asked by miss tique 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I do not want to be alone with him.
2006-12-04 06:54:16 · update #1
Every single time he comes over make sure your holding something or carrying something so he cant get the hug in but have plenty of time to get the hello's out of the way. Once the hello's are done and he is in the house a minute I'm sure he wont then come over and hug you. We can hope....lol
2006-12-04 06:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? What is wrong with him hugging you? If you want him to stop then the next time you see him and he starts to hug you tell him you do not want him to hug you. I am sure he will be disappointed because he is only showing he loves you.
2006-12-04 14:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe speak to your husband! tell him that you are uncomfortable with his dad hugging you all the time. Tell him that a hug is a very romantic thing for you and you dont feel its the right thing to be doing with your father in law. GOOD LUCK;)
2006-12-04 15:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by $u$kin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just b frank and tell him.. hugging ur father in law evrytime is a bit odd... just tell him before things get worst
2006-12-04 14:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him you have something contagious and don't know what it is yet. That should keep him away for awhile at least.
2006-12-04 14:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jon O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a tuffy, because you didnt set the ground rules up at the first.
2006-12-04 14:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell you husband. if he really don't listen then tell him your self. i was in the same boat but then i told (Ricky father-in-law) and he stopped. it may or may not be that easy but if the man ant serious all the time then tell him!!!
2006-12-04 15:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your husband to let him know that you would prefer a handshake or something a little less effectionate - after all you didnt marry him.....if that doesnt work, yeah -tell him your contagious...cough or something in his face...lol
2006-12-04 14:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's the problem? Do you have secret feelings toward him?
2006-12-04 15:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
pull yourself away a little, or maybe you should tell your mate.
2006-12-04 14:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by ruthie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋