so check it,i'm 17.Really skeptical about having sex with this guy.I've known him for 5 years,really great guy,cute,funny,sweet and really likes me.Only problem,he's my bestfriend's cousin.They don't really see eye to eye and she doesn't like him.Afraid i'll betray my friend by going behind her back.Also we not even dating,it's just about sex,because i'm leaving the country next year to study.
Here's a little about me: 17,just finished high school.Vibrant,energetic and skeptical about sex.Not a total airhead but still scared.
Please give me some advice on what to do,should i sleep with him or not,i really like him.
2006-12-04 06:44:52 · 14 answers · asked by Karissa G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should! Sex as you know should be something meaningful not something you just do with someone just to do it! (especially if its your first time) I did this my first time...and I wish I could get it back and have it with someone I loved and that loved me in return..no matter what people say here in the end you need to remember that you will have to live with your decision the rest of your life, do you really want to regret it later?
2006-12-04 06:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No--don't do it!! You may have know him for five years, but you aren't dating and you probably don't know him as well as you think you do. It takes awhile for a guy to reveal his true self. Sex is probably more meaningful to you than it is to this guy, and once you've had sex with him the relationship will be changed forever. There will be no going back to the status quo. It's good that you're skeptical about sex, but when it's time to engage in sex you'll know it's right without polling strangers on the net for opinions. You sound like you have a promising future--why take a chance? So many people think they have to have sex by the time they're 18 or something is wrong. It's not. You have more impt. things to focus on....don't worry about that step. It'll happen when it's suppose to and you seem to have major reservations about this particular guy. Good luck with your studies.
2006-12-04 14:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if you are doubtful at all dont do it becasue there is something trying to tell you that your not ready or your going to regret it or your just not ready. Dont allow ur self to feel pressured into doing it either do it when u feel ready and 100% comfotable with thte situation and the thought of actually having sex. Bottom line: dont do something now that you will regret later.You will NEVER get ur virginity back. and thats the most precious and innocent thing about you.Please give it some serious thought before doing anything.
2006-12-04 14:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look honey. I'm sorry, but if you're asking some people on the internet if you should have sex....you just aren't ready to have sex with this guy!!! Seriously, if you're mature enough and in love enough to have sex, you should be totally confident about your decision. You don't want to go to bed with this guy if you're not sure about him or if the relationship won't get anywhere...especially if it'll ruin a friendship too!
2006-12-04 14:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by purplmonkeez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't, when your going to take that emotional step it should be with some one you have deep feelings for, unless you just want to be able say you have been ******, your going to be going off to school and you may break his heart by screwing him then going off, wait till the time is really right for you to give of yourself like that, remember what goes around comes right back around.
2006-12-04 14:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by happyeverafter48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I don't want to say weight for sex because of your age.The only thing I want to say is if you don't feel comfortable with a guy then don't sleep with him at all.Your gut will be able to let you know if you can trust him or not.The time will be told.
2006-12-04 14:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!!!
Wait till you have your man, you'll enjoy it better then.
In the meantime get some sex toys..they are really great too!!
goodluck with your studies next year, I did that and I enjoyed it!
2006-12-04 14:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by Joni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice safe sex if there's sexual tension then do it cuz there's tension for a reason just make sure both of you know that its just sex
2006-12-04 14:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should not. sleep and leave is just a way of using each other and not really having a love connection.
2006-12-04 14:52:10 · answer #9 · answered by zoey z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just use protection, can't study with a baby!
2006-12-04 14:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋