I really love this person sometimes i cant stand him but other times i cant get enough of him, I want to ask him to marry me what should
2006-12-04 06:44:39 · 13 answers · asked by ms. understood 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
sounds like an emotional roller coaster.. have u ever thought that the marriage you want would be w/ someone who was Safe, Secure, Steadfast, Strong, etc? perhaps u should see how strong you can feel in a Positive way regarding this man and the relationship, and THEN discuss the marriage thing. Together.
this is my rule of thumb (heard it from my pastor and it really made sense to me):
after 1 year and 1/2 of serious dating, THEN u talk about marriage. if one, or both of you, are not sure about marrying Each Other, then BREAK UP. this is to ensure that u do not become too *attached* to each other as time goes on, but still unsure of the relationship. also it is to enable both of u to seek someone who WILL make u feel sure that u picked the right person. the longer the relationship drags on, is not good. there are people out there dating for 6 + years and still not sure..but scared to break up cuz they invested so much time. but the fact is, u are still UNSURE after 6 years, u gotta leave and find someone who makes u feel SURE!!! u know? it is for the good of YOU and the Guy. good luck.....remember, a positive, healthy life is what u are looking for to have and keep a strong marriage GOING. find soemone who is willing to work just as hard as you to be a good Person, Partner, and eventually Spouse.
2006-12-04 06:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself if this person is right for you. You say that sometimes you can't stand him. If there are times you can't stand him, what will the marriage be like? Can you truly envision yourself living with this man for the rest of your life? How old are you? Have you been dating for a long time? If not, take things slow. Make sure that you can trust him and that he is supportive of you. Love is complicated. You need to be prepared for the challenges you might face if you decide to get married. Remember, you may need to make sacrifices. Make sure that you are prepared to make sacrifices. Also, make sure he is prepared to make sacrifices. I hope everything works out for you. PS, he should be the one to propose to you!
2006-12-04 14:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the exact same situation! My boyfriend is an absolutely amazing person. He is everything I've ever wished for. He's amazing. Sometimes though he pisses me off, but it's okay. I still love him though. Just his little habits drive me crazy, like when he bites his nails constantly or won't stop touching me in public. I know we love each other and we are in love with each other. Some times are really hard between us. then there are other times when i just wanna lay in bed with him all day, just laying there. He's amazing. I love him and i just try to ignore the little stuff.
2006-12-04 14:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by big bang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel, my boyfriend can be a pain in the a** sometimes but irresistable the most. While talking to him bring up marriage and see what he says about it. Most of the time they'll say that they're ready to get married or that they're not. Just wait until your really ready for marriage don't rush into it.
2006-12-04 14:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by boylova_music2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that matters is if you really love him. Think deeply if you really wnt to spend the rest of your life with him before you say anything to him. We all aren't perfect so it's very normal that you feel you cant stand him sometimes. Think about what you dont like about him and analize if you can get over it or not. :P
2006-12-04 14:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you need to tell him how u really feel and ask him to marry you or just give him signs that u want to marry him
and if he really loves you he will ask you to be his wife
2006-12-04 14:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mavrik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is perfect. You can love someone and not stand them every now and again. You should wait it out, but talk about your futures.
2006-12-04 14:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in there and ask the question and find out his answer then you can plan your life correctly lol thank you
2006-12-04 14:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just marry him your inlove with him so what if you get fed up with him sometimes isnt that a part of life sometimes people get on ur nerves
2006-12-04 14:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
have a him to date you at your house in have a candle light dinner then ask him he love you first .
2006-12-04 14:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by aretha r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋