Am i a jerk, will she forgive me?

Question

Yesterday i met a girl on the singles site, i told her after a mail that i am married and are only really looking for some conversation as i am currently working away from home (in another country), i feel like a bum, do you think she will understand and forgive me?

Answer 1

The girl from the site?

Or your wife?

Were are your priorities.

Answer 2

I think if you're married you shouldn't be searching for nothing on a singles site.!!!!

Now to answer your question , that girl should understand that if you are married you can't do anything besides having a coversation with you. You did well telling her that you're married before she thinks on doing something else. If she's a great person she will understand you. You shouldn't feel bad for telling her the truth. Good Luck!!

Answer 3

Probably not, first of all you were on a "SINGLES SITE" meaning you are single not married...if you wanted conversation there are a billion chat rooms you could be in, and by the way what you are doing is borderline cheating on your wife...next thing will be I only met her to have someone to talk to while I drank my coffee and so on down the line.

Answer 4

What is there to forgive when you are telling the truth.Women like honest men cause there are very few of them.I'm sure she wont think any thing of it and if she does she is a slapper and best left well alone (the woman on chat site i guess you are talking about and not your wife) If i was your wife on the other hand i would be pretty pis**ed off.

Answer 5

Are you referring to the girl on the singles site or your wife?! I wouldn't forgive you if I were either of them, but I'm a conservative. Unless you have an 'open marriage' I'd suggest you keep the emotional closeness and/or connection with the lady you exchanged vows with (i.e. your wife). You are a bum buddy--and hey you asked.

Answer 6

You are a bum. She should leave you so you can be happy. Or you wouldn't have been on a singles site in the first place.

Answer 7

If you're married, do you think it's ok to be concerned with a woman on a single's site?
If you're not married, what's the big deal?

Answer 8

Um, if you're looking for some conversation, why are you on a SINGLES site?

Answer 9

You shouldn't be on a singles site if you are married. Or should have told her upfront that you were married.

Answer 10

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