Me and this guy have been hanging out for like 2 months now. I met him in my psychology class and everything was great for the first month. He was calling and texting me and we did a lot together. Now he hardly ever calls me he don't want to text and I have to be the one to bring it up if I want to hang out. I miss the person I first met!! He seems like he gets bored with me or it just seems like he is getting tired of me. I really really like this guy its just that I don't know what is going on inside his head and it is driving crazy. What is it? Is he bored? What can I do the make things go back to the way they used to be? I am crazy over this guy!!
2006-12-04 06:37:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to back off and forget about him for now, who knows what could be the cause. Give him some space, and if he doesn't call or ask you out, then move on and find someone else.
2006-12-04 06:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he got to know you during the first month and decided you weren't a romantic match. That doesn't mean you're not a great person, it just means he's not that into you. That's what happens in life: you meet people you like, you get to know them, and many times there's no interest so you move on. There's nothing you can do- it's best to understand that not every guy you're crazy for is going to feel the same, so move on and find someone better for you.
2006-12-04 14:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll give him the benefit of the doubt and say he most likely met someone else. If that's the case, it'd be nice if he could be a man and tell you. But even if that's bit true it sounds like he's pretty much being a jerk by blowing you off. And - I know you won't want to hear this - but you're much better off without him. Give your heart to someone who really deserves it.
2006-12-04 14:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by wineboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are coming on a little strong, and maybe he's feeling that too.
Relax, if he wants you, he'll come get you.
It sounds like he's over it though... You should move on!
2006-12-04 14:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have moved his focus to another girl. I'd see about what other options you have out there.
2006-12-04 14:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him jealous, if this doesn't work then forget about him and find another guy.
2006-12-04 14:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by RousseSantini 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋