He only has them on the internet, and she doesnt know what exactly goes on, but she has clues to what IS going on. Is it cheating? Or not really?
Should she be concerned in any way?
2006-12-04 06:29:43 · 23 answers · asked by Jessica C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A relationship is a relationship,no matter based on the internet or offline.Of course,its cheating.No doubt about it.She should dump him immediately.
2006-12-04 06:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be concerned only becuase she has a right to know what is going on.. So for me yes he is cheating only because he is having a relationship with more then one girl at the same time... so for me yes.
2006-12-04 06:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by Zombie gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of whether we follow through with things or not, the human imagination gives us the "feeling" of cheating with those other people... To make a distinction between "wanting it" and actually "getting it" should only count towards the concept of getting a disease (STD)... To "want it" is enough to get you in trouble with God, and EVERYBODY knows it! The minds of men get them in trouble throughout history... The best this guy should be able to come up with is something lame like, "Ok, yes, I had sex with her.... But I made love to you, baby..." Yes, he's cheating! Unless she knows about it and let's him, then he's NOT cheating... She's a cuckold, and he's a cad.
2006-12-04 06:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by GeoffHubbard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's no more harmful than daydreaming about sex with Angelina Jolie (all guys do it)! If he's spending ALL of his time online chatting with girls instead of spending time with YOU...then you should worry! As long as he's being attentive to your needs and his online flirting stays in the fantasy realm of the online world...I don't think it's an issue.
Now, with that being said...if there are OTHER reasons that you don't trust him and you are having serious trust issues...then save yourself some heartbreak and EJECT now! If you don't trust him now...you never will. No matter how many times you tell yourself he'll change...he won't...we don't...and neither do you.
2006-12-04 06:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by Italian_Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I consider it cheating. If you have a friend on line that you trust and talk to and ask advice from, it's one thing. But if you are actually saying things like "I love you" "I wish we could be together" "I wish you were my girlfriend instead of so-and-so" "when can we meet?" That is cheating.
Your friend should definitely be concerned.
2006-12-04 06:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's cheating in the mind and cheating in reality. Has this spud done either?
Cheating in the mind is actually wanting to be with the other person sexually. Is there *any* proof that this spud did that? Or is this all guess work?
2006-12-04 06:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are having any kind of cybersex, then yes, it is cheating. If he just has female friends online, then the only thing to worry about is stalkers.
Any action of sex--kissing, actual sex, cybersex, etc.--with someone other than the person with whom you are in a relationship is cheating.
2006-12-04 06:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by Esma 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would consider it cheating cause if he told her about it then it means he has feelings for her but if she found out then it would be considered cheating i would dump him but if she has so many feelings 4 him then talk it out with him!!
2006-12-04 06:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by Miley C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is cheating! Just because it's online doesn't mean it's ok.
2006-12-04 06:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your friends knows and she knows because he told her then it is not cheating but if he did not tell her then it prob means that there is more going on then an internet relationship
2006-12-04 06:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by allycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋