her man is in iraq i know its hoeish but she dont know what to do
2006-12-04 06:27:53 · 26 answers · asked by sexyonesr2goodforyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
quit being a slut.
2006-12-04 06:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by frizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I will not criticize you but I am sure you know the difference between right and wrong. Since you are pregnant by someone other than your boyfriend and clearly you do not believe in marriage before getting pregnant, you should under no circumstances tell the guy who got you pregnant unless you intend to see that he takes part responsibility for the child. You must however at some point tell your boyfriend but not while he is in Iraq. Wait until he gets home. I cannot guarantee what he will say but I am sure he will be upset and realize you cheated on him. Some guys can live with it and some can't. You have a responsibility to the child and the child must come first. If you choose not to want the child then I strongly urge you to wait until the child is delivered and then put the child up for adoption. Do not go and have an abortion. They are dangerous and you will have many emotional problems afterwards not to mention the possibility of physical problems.
2006-12-04 14:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her man, then he'll brake up with her b/c she cheated on him, end of chapter 1....
chapter 2....talk to the real dad, and see if he wants the baby....if he says no, have the baby and put up for adoption. I am not a supporter of abortion if there is no need to abort. To me this is not, just another girl being stupid, probably not using protection and cheating on her man.
Chapter 3....she hopefully learns how to be faithful to any future b/f she has and not to get involved with military men...because by this question it didn't work the first time
2006-12-04 14:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously she needs to do the right thing. She needs to tell him. Since he is in Iraq, if he still has a while before he comes home, she needs to go ahead and tell him when he calls, or tell him in a letter. She needs to let him know as soon as possible. That is going to piss him off so bad, because he is so far away tha the can't do anytihg about it, but he is goin gto know that it isn't his because he has been gone. She might as well face that it's over....she made her bed, now she has to lie in it
2006-12-04 14:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what she get for sleepin with some one else when she is playing some one....some one fighting for his country none the less....she should feel terrible and she needs to grow up tell her soon to be ex man in Iraq and she needs to tell the baby's daddy that hes got a child coming...tell your firend that your sorry but its time to be an adult
2006-12-04 14:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...honestly...I've been in the military and I found out that my wife cheated...and I divorced her. Mainly because there were PLENTY of opportunities for me to cheat and I didn't.
Anyways, my advice depends on whether or not she wants to keep the baby. If she wants to keep the baby, then she should do that and be honest with her boyfriend and see if he wants to still be with her.
If she doesn't want to keep the baby, she should NOT TELL HIM that she cheated. I hate to say it...but I'd rather have NEVER known that my wife cheated on me than to go through the heartbreak of divorcing her. It is true what they say, "what you don't know can't hurt you."
If she does tell him though...he will never trust her...NEVER. Everytime she comes home late...is whispering on the phone...is online chatting...or text messaging....he'll wonder which guy it is with this time!
2006-12-04 14:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Italian_Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I guess theres nothing she can do except have a baby, and tell her boyfriend the truth. Or if he dont come home in nine months or whatever, just have the baby and tell him nothing about it, but that would be really wrong. So the best thing to do is tell him the truth about everything
2006-12-04 14:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Bored&Broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's in Iraq not much she can do but pack her crap and go. The guy is gonna know that it's not his and a man can forgive almost anything but that kind of betrayal.
2006-12-04 14:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she want to keep it? It's her decision, but she shouldn't expect that her boyfriend will want anything to do with her when he gets back if she does keep it. Not to be rude, but in this day and age, with all the protection available to both women and men, why is she in this mess anyway. Not responsible enough to use protection, how can she be responsible for a child?
2006-12-04 14:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, she has to decide what she wants...and whats best for her...having or getting rid of a child is a big choice...that only she can make. Once she has answered that for herself...then it is up to the guy to decide if he can forgive and forget or move on. But she needs to realize that she might have made a mistake but its not so easy to get rid of. If her guy really loves her..then can overcome anything...no one is perfect.
2006-12-04 14:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by Ana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a decision that only she can make, she need to decide if she can handle a baby at this time of her life. and she needs to be honest with her boyfriend. And he does not need to hear anything like this over their fighting for his country. The decision she makes is going to affect her for the rest of her life.
2006-12-04 14:32:12 · answer #11 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋