basically im in love wiv one of my friends and like 3months ago i asked my friend 2 do the check up like what do u think of Chris (me) and she came back sayin that the girl doesnt like u that way, i was crushed. BUT, on friday i was so drunk and i called the girl and i basically left a voicemail sayin that i luv u and everything about u, the next day on msn she was like thank u so much for that message it meant alot 2 me, and then i had 2 go so i ended the convo quickly, bt 2day i went 2 school wiv askin her out in mind bt one of my friends stopped me sayin she will say no, bt the problem is y would she like it if she didnt feel the same, and is she just playin wiv my emotions or has she changed, or should i just forget about this girl, or should i ask her out riskin our friendship, or just do nothing? tell me what u think, thanks.
2006-12-04 06:24:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her. If she says no, then just be friends, at least then you'll know and you can quit worrying about it.
Seriously, life is a lot easier when you are upfront about that stuff and quit worrying so much about the rejection.
2006-12-04 06:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that if you truly like this young lady is ask her out. However, when you ask her make it known that the friendship that the two of you already have is important to you and you do not and will not do anything hinder it. But, you are the belief that if a relationship is to be successful it best those involved be friends before lovers which gives them solid foundation to build a lasting relationship on. Physical relationships are just that and very seldom last, the reason being on any given day you will or can see someone else who is pleasing to your eyesight, but not everyone you see will enhance or affect your mind and your heart.
2006-12-04 06:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this is a tough situation.... since im a girl i think she what she means by thank you is she appreciates the conmment even though you were drunk.... it makes her feel good that someone likes her... for example have you ever had a girl like you but you didnt like her but you liked the fact that you were liked, if that makes sense.... it could be that feeling for her.... what i think you should do: i think you should ask her out.... from the way you write you have strong feelings for her and i think you should at least try to get her.... half the battle is getting the girl right? if she says yes then you are gold, if she says no then at least you arent kicking yourself with not knowing what could have been.... my only advice, do it sober...
good luck
i hope you get her
2006-12-04 06:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by sprtzgrl380 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend likes her too. Just be a man and go for it, all she can say is no and if that happens c'est la vie, go back to being friends. Stop worrying and just ask!
2006-12-04 06:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Velma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your 'friend' doesn't want you dating this girl. If its chick that you keep asking advice from then she likes you and doesn't want you dating anyone else and if its a guy then he likes the girl and doesn't want anyone dating her. Ask her out, you've already confessed your feelings whats the wrost that could happen.
2006-12-04 06:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell her saying i don't want things to make it awkward between the 2 of us but i really like you and was just thinking the same but if you don't i still want to be friends
2006-12-04 06:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by scott C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, your friend who is telling you not too is jealous. Bite the bullet, find out one way or the other. If she says yes, yay - if she says no you can stop beating yourself up. Good luck. :)
2006-12-04 06:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by chutney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what av u got to lose! she can only say no and a least she will no you are interested. if you dont ask you will never get! dont be a coward do the man thing
2006-12-04 06:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by lesliethrelfall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She told you that she liked the message... Your friends told you that she doesn't... Sounds to me like you need to ignore your friends and talk to her in person.
Always talk to her DIRECTLY, not thru someone else. You avoid misunderstandings and 3rd-person lies that way.
2006-12-04 06:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit and talk with her all alone and see how she feels without any editorials from the peanut gallery.
2006-12-04 06:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋