I had been in relationship for 9 years and the sex had become boring. My sex drive dropped a bit because of this and now I am out of that relationship and single I am constantly thinking about it and horny like all the time. I am 35 now so is that something to do with it? It came as a bit of a shock to me but I don't want to go round having one night stands. I am very diserning in who I have a relationship with but this sex drive has gone crazy!!! Have you girls been through the same thing?
2006-12-04 06:18:43 · 14 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm sure it has a lot to do with you age. they say a womens sex drive is at it's best when they're in their eary thirtys. it could also be that you haven't had sex in a while so now you miss it. it does get boring being in the same relationship for sooo long. i've only been in mine for 5 years, so i could just imagine 9 years. well you're single now so just be safe if you're going to hook up. i think you should just enjoy yourself, after being in such a long relationship you need to see what else is out there b4 you know it you'll meet someone special and you wont sleep around anymore......i know it might sound a little bad, but i'm just being real.
2006-12-04 06:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by sexy-cecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some toys! You are in your thirties and your sex drive is at it's peak! Being alone doesn't help. Toys will at least take the edge off until you find someone you want a meaningful relationship with. DO NOT sleep around! BAD idea! Toys are much better! :) Adam and Eve.com BUy on-line and in privacy even! How convienient! Oh.... it will pass, too. Around about 38, 39 :) Damn I'm old! hahaha
2006-12-04 14:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by clistaharrington 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant go too long without sex or else I go nuts. I didn't used to be like this as much so perhaps age has something to do with it. Ive heard that when we are in our child bearing years we get hornier so we will have more sex and have more children. Makes sense. These days I really cant go too long without, that's why I have me some friends with benefits. Its a must have for a single women.
2006-12-04 14:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
am ok because am a married woman other wise i would of helpped you out but a cant so you will have to keet doin the 1nite stands or find a woman who has a sex drive like yours. thats all
2006-12-04 14:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you lost it and now it is back.... so you get into a relationship and start all over. Don't have to do one night stands.
2006-12-04 14:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by DM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a woman, but am a counselor, and yes, this is normal. I'm glad you aren't a ****, but you do need to try either thinking of something else, or self gratification. Good luck, honey!
2006-12-04 14:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i have. all it means is that you get tired of having the same person and then you have the chance to be with someone else and you can get a bit excited. pick someone and go crazy!
2006-12-04 14:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go and buy yourself a 'rabbit' Ann Summers catalogue or shop fairly cheap.
2006-12-04 14:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by chutney 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yup, get some good sex toys to get you through the lulls, it's not as fun, but better than going out whoreing!
2006-12-04 14:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by krissy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yep..divorced and 30 and think about sex 24/7
2006-12-04 14:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋