did not call because I felt that he was seeing and flirting with a number of girls online. Almost as if he was just playing games, was i wrong to not call, I really am looking for more than a game and was afraid? It has been a month now and I can't stop thinking about him, what is wrong with me?
2006-12-04 05:46:42 · 19 answers · asked by justme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No honey there's nothing wrong with you not calling him and there's nothing wrong with you thinking abt him.We get those feelings some times but we just have to be careful with controlling them.You sound like u guys haven't chatted since he gave you his number.I think its best you give him ur number when next you both chat and see how it goes.Then you can decide and don't get stuck(thinking) to him 4 too long though cos there's lot of fun you need to catch outta there.Cheer up.
2006-12-04 05:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm now not announcing it's constantly detrimental to fulfill any person in person that you already know by way of the web (i have some family who observed their spouses that method and they're pleasant humans), nevertheless, given your situations I strongly urge you to now not provide your individual knowledge out. When you had met the guy on a discussion board or an mmo etc and were just pals it maybe secure, however this is an grownup chat room which tells me it can be all about intercourse. First off, you deserve so significantly better. I realize it's rough after a nasty ruin up but you must have faith in yourself that you're worth so much more than a sex toy for some pervert in the UK. If you find yourself intimate with any person you deserve for it to have love and which means at the back of it. Try and preserve off your urges unless you're really in love (and i would urge you to be married additionally, however that is just me). For now do not provide your number to this guy in the UK. The longer you look ahead to anybody correct the easier it will be ya know? Secondly, it can be detrimental. There may be loads a character can do with even just a mobilephone number. He can become some thing of a stocker and make contact with you off the hook looking for enjoyable. He may also use the telephone number to check out and in finding your bodily address. I am not saying it would go that a ways but it may possibly. He is most certainly similar to you and looking some quick fun and manner no harm but again seek advice from my first factor that you simply DESERVE higher. If ultimately you decide you want to talk to him, please desire safeguard and simply get a mic to your pc. That you can speak over yahoo w/out giving out your phone number...
2016-08-10 00:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by not calling hime, maybe you just need to hear it, or confirm it with yourself. Truth is is, he's not taking you serious, thats why he is flirting with other girls. So the best thing to do, is stop thinking about it and trust your decision. You have a God given talent, womans intuition, and it's usually right, besides, what ever he may have told you on the phone, is the same lines he probably used on the computer to you, and a few ithers, he aint got that "something special" cause you would have known it already.
2006-12-04 05:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by AntzaGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing....and I agree with previous comments dont call him...dont meet with him....These days you never know whats out there....I mostly agree with the comment that said guys online arent looking for anthing serious, chances are hes a broke dumbass without a job, and thats why he has all this time to make your dreams come true through chats.... you never know these days....You can agree to meet up ......but will you be around to tell the story? not to be mean or nothing but thats the reality of life. And if you are around to tell it....will your story be a great one or will you be telling the police how he wanted to have you and you didnt want it and you kept of pushing him away but he was too strong, too powerful for you...that you just couldnt push him off of you??....all Im saying is think about it..
2006-12-04 05:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by shygrl52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, how did you meet him online?.... Through a dating service or through yahoo? You can venture and take the chance to call him, but always be aware that you could be one of several or he has a hidden adgenda. If not one of several or no hidden agenda, could you handle a possible long distance relationship if it is (I dont know the distance between the two of you). I met my boyfriend (now ex but friends) online and we were together 7 months; was and is still a great guy with no hidden agenda.... But becareful because they (the real ones) are few and far between..Good luck.
2006-12-04 05:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by prodigy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong for wanting to protect yourself. I too would be turned off by a big flirt. You can always email him and say hi if you really want to see how he is. Or call. But honestly, I think you should go with your first instinct--it is probably right.
2006-12-04 05:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you're looking for someone to have a relationship with, he's looking for fun.
Was it a free online thing that you "met" him? The guys aren't as serious re: relationships as the ones that join the paid singles intro services.
2006-12-04 05:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you got the feeling that he was sketchy, then you did the right thing. I wouldn't dwell on it. Most guys looking for relationships online aren't looking for anything serious anyway.
2006-12-04 05:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by dolce 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i seroiously think that u shuld not phne that guy. i mean u dnt even knw him... whether he is lying or telling u the truth!! u shuld maybe try to meet him first but obviously not alone mayb u culd have a frend with u...Meet him first and then u decide what u want to do in this relationship.
2006-12-04 05:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly meeting people online is very dangerous. You do not need to call him. He could be a rapist and/or a murderer and you would never know.
2006-12-04 05:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋