theres a girl at school and we are realy good friends. i realy like her but im not sure if she likes me. i have a feeling that she does but is there a way of telling??
2006-12-04 04:44:56 · 8 answers · asked by mr happy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we girls when we like someone we always show green lights ( smile at you, feeling uncomfortable when you are around, laugh at your jokes even if they are not funny, looking at you once you look back we look away and when you ask us out we will say YES) JUST ASK HER OUT it will not kill you.
2006-12-04 04:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by chimsy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh that old problem. Don't worry everybody has the same problem. If only we could read minds.
Is she just being friendly or would she like there to be more? This is a very hard one to sort out without making things awkward between you. You can try and spend some more time with her alone, without actually going on a date. Just try and have a little conversation with her now and then. If she seems happy to be alone with you and responsive to your conversation, you can suggest that you do some activity (non date like) together, again if she agrees and appears to have a good time then things are going well. After that it might be time to take the chance and ask her out on a 'date' type date like dinner or a movie. Try to be casual about it though so that she can turn you down without feeling guilty and so that you know she's not going out with you because she feels she has to.
Also flirting can be a real help in these situations. Try these:
1) Hold eye contact with her a little longer than necessary.... see how she responds.
2) Try to touch her shoulder or arm in a casual way and see how she reacts.
3) Try giving her a complement on something that you wouldn't normally, like how great she looks or how happy she looks.
4) Give her a big smile every time you see her to let her know that she lights up your life.
Best of luck.
2006-12-04 12:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by SmartBlonde 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had this problem with the person who is now my GF am a really shy bloke and to be honest mate no there isn't a way of telling. the only thing you can do is ask her straight and don't be drunk wen doing so as you have to ask all over again the next day. lol
merry christmas
and i hope she says yes to ya mate
2006-12-04 13:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by scott C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking her if she likes you in a joking but serious way. If she says yes then it obviously means she does. Grab that opportunity quickly and ask her out if you want to then. And wait for her answer. I hope she says YES to you. You would love it wouldn't you?
2006-12-04 12:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by tyana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she always look at u??is she always wanting to ask YOU about school and stuff??if the answer is yes,then she likes..
2006-12-04 12:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by the_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to find out. ask her on a date. good luck. merry christmas xxx
2006-12-04 12:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jacquimc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only sure way is to ask her. you could confuse body language signals to mean something else
2006-12-04 12:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Cynical 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes what u do is come out and ask her if she does or not then u will no
2006-12-04 12:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋