my gf wants to watch porn before having sex? she says it gets her in the "mood" faster. I like watching with her, but I just wondered what others think
2006-12-04 04:44:08 · 17 answers · asked by Spudnic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's more that I have to wonder if she'll get to a point where she has to watch it to get aroused. I fear she won't be attracted enough to me to do it without watching first. . .
2006-12-04 04:52:14 · update #1
I'ld probably be bummed out by it after a while.
then again, she's probably up for trying lots of interesting stuff that most girls would be scared to do.
2006-12-04 04:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is cool to watch but it can create a nasty habit. I kid you not I had over 300 porno's some I watched with my gf others I didn't.
It came to the point where she told me to either get rid of it or she was leaving. So I dumped her (No I'm playing) I threw it away because it was an addiction that started the same way you've explained here.
I'm not saying this will happen to you, but be carful with it. I know iit sounds silly but it's true.
2006-12-04 12:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually it's the guy that wants to watch porn, women are not as erotically charged when watching other people have sex, but if it gets her in the mood and you like to watch it too then what's the problem?
(I find it creepy watching COMPLETE STRANGERS have sex)
2006-12-04 12:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Cass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least shes not some prude that thinks porn is the devil and would flip out if she caught you watching it like 98% of women out there. Consider yourslf lucky.
2006-12-04 12:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad that you have a g/f that will watch porn with you most females I know will not even watch it. So hell if it turns her on and she is not cheating on you I think it is okay. I watch porn with my b/f so that we can turn each other on
2006-12-04 12:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a strange situation..
I would be bothered and hurt if someone had to watch porn before getting it on with me.
But, if your ok with it..then let it be I suppose...
2006-12-04 12:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch, doesn't that make you feel bad though? That you can't do it yourself? Maybe you should find out more about what she likes and maybe you won't have to use the porn crutch.
2006-12-04 12:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Grand Master Flex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok but watch in private not in front of everyone
2006-12-04 12:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by ~Insanity Has Taken Over~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how bout trying taking her somewhere else besides the house to have sex...like stop somewhere in the car...play with her alittle bit...do your own thing to get her excited
2006-12-04 13:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The type of thing gets me going as well. I'm game!
2006-12-04 12:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋