I went out with his best friend last December. Then i lived outside the US for a year and I told him in Sept. I love him and he said he loves me too. I just got back and i saw him friday but I dont like him anymore. But he loves me! and I just want to have the relationship i use to have (like brother and sister). But what if I like him later on?
2006-12-04 04:30:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You ruined that forever. He probably never wanted to have a "brother and sister" relationship. Have you ever seen 'Just Friends'. You need to rent it and you'll see how you've been treating this guy.
2006-12-04 04:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by Abu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the thing about relationships they are complicated. Sometimes you dont like the person as much as they like you and then later on your or that other persons feelings can change. I dont know what you can do about that. What if you dont like him later on after all. I say you have to think and search within your hear for the answer.
2006-12-04 04:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel...
That would be the best thing to do...I know he will feel hurt...but thats a lot better than you leading him on and hurting him even more later on...
If you guys become friends and you develop feelings for him then great...because if he still loves you now...more than likely he will love you then...
Good luck!!!
2006-12-04 04:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like him later on u can convert the relationship to the one to which u r then fascinated for. I shud work out ok.
2006-12-04 04:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no suck thing as bestest. And trivial stuff like that has easy answers. Like tell him you dont want to go out with him.()
2006-12-04 04:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are sorry, your feellings have changed and you would like to be friends. Don't give him any false hope.
2006-12-04 04:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once in this situation. Call him up and explain to him how you feel and if he is truly a bestfriend than he will accept your feelings and understand.
2006-12-04 04:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Smooth move........ I agree you ruined it...... Find a new friend...
2006-12-04 04:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by jack 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋