Ive been going out with girl for a little more then a year, ive bought her some jewlery and thing like necklaces and stuff like that. She called me the other day asking me where i bought the things i got her, and said if i got it from kay jewlers(really expensive jewlery store) she would feel so special, stupidly i told her yes i did, when really i didnt, but i just couldnt tell her no, i thought she would feel so bad. Now i cant live with the fact that i lied to her about this, what can i do to tell her sorry? (please help me)
2006-12-04 04:27:49 · 24 answers · asked by anthony_adamoa_adamo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her the truth. Just say you lied to her because you didn't want to hurt her feelings. If she really cares about you, she won't care where you got the jewelry from (provided you didn't steal it, of course). She should only care about the thought behind the gifts, not where they came from.
If she gets upset that they aren't from that one store, dump her, because she's only using you for the gifts.
2006-12-04 04:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did u get it at the flea market or something? i don't see why u had to lie? now u feel obligated to tell her the truth, and the truth of the matter is u are a moran. thing is for females it's the thought that counts, jewlerys are great gifts, but females are usually on a need to know basis, buddy. lol, u put yourself in this position, so now apologize, just tell her straight out. maybe u can have some make- up sex along the way. be a playa and don't get played AGAIN.
2006-12-04 12:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by Henry P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st off being a girl and all it makes me wonder why in the world would you getting expensive jewelery matter... sounds a bit like a gold digger... i say u tell her the truth and be like "ok i have something 2 tell you and just let me finish talking before you say anything. i didnt get the jewelery from kay's i only said it because i just couldnt tell you no but i couldn't live w/ myself knowing taht i lied 2 u so i had to tell you" and if she gets all mad taht u didnt get it from kays or w/e u shuld b like "what does it matter that i got it from somewhere expensive anyways? it shouldn't be about how much money i spend on u" and if she whips out the "it's the fact taht u lied" card on u tell her "well thats y i told u the truth" but yea thats all i got
2006-12-04 12:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying to your girlfriend is a bad thing indeed , but if she is like the girl you know her to be and she is nice and sweet, you just sit her down and tell that you have something you want to tell her, tell you did not mean to do it because you did not want to hurt her and tell her what you did and why you did it, and hope that she accepts your apology and if she does then you know that you were lucky this and may not get lucky next time and if she does not accept your apology and want to split then you know what you have to do, Keeping this from your girlfriend will only make it harder for you to tell her so the sooner you tell her the sooner you can get it over with and find out her reaction. Good Luck.
2006-12-04 12:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her in a room with just you and her. say "honey, theres something I've been meaning to tell you. The jewelry that I bought you didn't really come from Kay Jewelers. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to lie, but the way you asked me that the other day, I just really wanted to make you feel special. I didn't mean to lie to you about it. I promise."
2006-12-04 12:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by bleakpurity999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anthony : the best way to apologize just go up to her and prove
it were she'd knows how sorry that yourself is also be polite
but you'd should of told girlfriend were those jewlery brought at
first place understand clearly sir because lies is no good !
2006-12-04 12:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she only cares if the jewelery is expensive? It sounds like she should apologize to you for being so superficial! She should be happy you were sweet enough to buy her something nice in the first place and not give a rats fanny about where it came from. Unless you pulled it off of some dead corpse, you're good with me honey!
2006-12-04 12:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her...there's something that is "really" bothering me. I really like you and don't want you to think bad of me. I did something really stupid and I am so sorry. I told you I got this at Kay's when in fact it came from Wal-Mart. I'm sorry I lied, I just didn't want you to think I was the cheap bastard I am. I bet she forgives you.
2006-12-04 12:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you have to go and lie for? Tell her the truth and why -- they say you are sorry. If she is such a materialistic individual, maybe you need to find someone else. OTHERWISE< you are going to be forking out the moolaa every time she needs her igo boosted or you have done something she thinks is wrong.
2006-12-04 12:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw you're cute.
Just tell her where you really got it, in a bashful way, and why you lied. In the scheme of things, it shouldn't be a big deal. What matters is that she likes it, right? Not where you got it.
2006-12-04 12:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋