Im going out at the weekend and a normal evening out consists of getting totally wasted,dancing around my handbag barefoot,frequenting the mens toilets(have you seen the queue for the ladies?)falling into a bag of chips and gravy at the end of the night and waking up hugging the toilet sunday morning.Im fed up of waking up alone should i drop the classy act ?Maybe if i didnt act such a lady i,d stand more chance of finding someone.How is the correct way to behave on a girls night out?
2006-12-04 04:23:55 · 17 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I find myself in a similar situation, however I am in my twenties and can still feel smug, and single from time to time.
It sounds to me, that you share a similar problem to me in that you are too busy having fun (getting drunk) to really put much effort into finding a bloke, yet at about 3am on the way home, you really want someone to hold your hair back whilst you vomit.
I think that you do behave correctly for a girls night out, because when I'm on a girls night out it is very much frowned upon if you bugger off with a guy. If you are just out for a night out, perhaps lay off the pop a bit, and try to keep your shoes on!
2006-12-04 04:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're hoping to find a husband in a nightclub...Forget IT!!!! It'll never work!!! Most definitely change your approach..It's so true that men want a woman in the streets, and a freak in the sheets...Try acting as a lady, it doesn't look good to get toasted in clubs and tripping sideways, face twisted up, breath fool of booze...and people have to duck scared that you may vomit on them....
On a lighter note, you should not try to chase after men. Dazzle yourself up, and have the men lining up after you. Act as a true "lady", and show confidence in yourself, dress yourself as a lady--don't dress cheaply--don't give away anything out of your goody bag. Just demand commitment out of a man that's husband material.
Try looking your best even if going out to purchase groceries. You never know who's looking at you. Eventually you won't wake up lonely anymore.
2006-12-04 16:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be a tart to pull in a nightclub! You wont find anyone other than a one night stand clubbing! Maybe you want that? If so dye your hair blonde ,act thick ,wear pink lipstick ,get your legs and t#ts out and dont forget to simulate sex every 10 minutes ie ******** the bottle, pretend to sit on a bottle , gyrate your ****! If not meet blokes other ways like on here, can i have your number?
2006-12-05 07:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i didnt know ladies did that stuff.
it depends what you want to do and what type of gut you want. the guy that goes for wasted girls and sticky night clubs probably isnt who you're looking for. its fine if you're not looking for mr right and just want to have fun but i would suggest drinking less, finding some classier venues and maybe looking at starting some hobbies / groups that will increase your chance of meeting a like minded man.
30 and single is not that bad, more women are leaving it later to find their husband / partner. if you act too desperate or easy then you wont find the right type either.
2006-12-04 12:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Cynical 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try going out to meet men in another venue, not all men like clubs. Take a neighbours dog out during the day, there are lots of lovely men doing exactly the same thing.
2006-12-04 12:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by Social Science Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have lost objectivity and considering your quoted life style may I suggest you never had one to begin with.
Unless you want to meet germs?
So what to do?
These days there is not much choice.
No dance halls, skating rinks and so on.
Find a ballroom dancing class.
Join a golf club. (I hate them)
Join a political club (Conservative but they are all the same)
Local clubs like the British Legion
Do you get the picture?
Go anywhere you can hang out without being thought of as someone who is on the look out.
One thing's for sure you can't carry on like you are.
Best Wishes.
2006-12-04 12:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fun is good, but if your looking for a man they prefer the ones who don't get wasted every weekend.
Drinking is bad for your liver and you wont live long continuing this lifestyle. Men will go for you if you sit and talk instead of prancing around drunk as hell.
2006-12-04 12:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by purplerachi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change
I saw exactly that behaviour on Saturday night
And looked at the beautiful, charming sophisticated lady on my armed and I smiled to myself how lucky I am
Some gentleman will come your way
2006-12-04 12:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin' why not spend the week end with your biggest admirer, namely Me. I'll show you a good time with out the headache the followin' morn.
2006-12-04 12:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
None of the stuff you're doing now. Oh, and put your darn shoes back on that dancefloor's sticky!
2006-12-04 12:26:58 · answer #10 · answered by Nick W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋