I'm 28 years old and my boyfriend is 24 years old. We have been together for five years. At the beginning we had connection and chemistry, somehow, things has change and we both felt that like thing were ending between the two of us. Meanwhile, we're trying to work things out. I know he loves me and I some what do about him. I know age does mean a thing but, we have invested at lot together through the ups and downs. Is it possible to rekindle our relationship, if we're trying to work things out?
2006-12-04 04:11:13 · 17 answers · asked by Littles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Be creative. It will come to you.
2006-12-04 04:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is possible for things to work out if you are working on your problems and managed to find out what was causing your problem. I will say nothing will exacatly be the same as it was before but you make it better and more interesting. Age really should not matter just a long as he is not too young or old. You obviously know what you want and how to get it. whatever you are doing you are doing well just keep your line of communication in check. Changing the way the chemistry goes between you and your partner might seem bad but it depends on how you perceieve it, it could mean a turn for the good.
2006-12-04 04:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships take work and it's always fun in the beginning because it's new and exciting. Once the new wears off and you both get into that same old groove and it's hard to break out of it, both in your daily lifestyles and in your emotions. Try new things, new places to visit, new foods, hang out with different people, something that will give you things to talk about instead of the same old "how was your day"...you can only do that so long. If you love each other make it work. It might seem fun to date new people but you will end up in the same place eventually with someone new. You just have to keep it alive. Do some things he wants to do like go to a ball game or something...it will charge his emotions and have him do the same thing for you. Whatever you guys can do to make each other more interesting. Hope it works out for you.
2006-12-04 04:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by M E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...it happens in every relationship and is only natural that that spark that triggered the fire between you two fades. Now the fun part is, keeping the flames going and not letting it die out. Try new things, sex and dating wise. You two have become comfortable with one another and know every aspect of each others' lives so the mystery and excitement of getting to know someone new is over. Now's your chance to get to know each other all over again...things/people change over the years. Maybe there's something new that he likes/doesn't like. Perhaps take a mini-vacation together...last minute, be spontaneous. Do whatever it takes to keep things going. You just gotta spice it up a bit and keep it interesting. Best of luck!
2006-12-04 04:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tuff question, i think it can be done it going to take time and some hard work but as long as both of you have not fellen out of love at the same time, i think you can. im work on the same prom myself me and my wife as been spilt up for a little over a year and are now working on getting back together its a lot of work to put aside one's problems and to truely forgive the mistakes that the other makes but if you have the will and the want, anything can happen
2006-12-04 05:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by kenpo426806 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could...but what if this is a turning point in your life. There are certain paths we need to take to grow and learn. Don't be afraid to end a relationship, it only means you are opening the door for someone else. When you get older you will look back and see somethings "needs be" . So you can get to the point you need to be at. So you can learn the lessons you need to learn. So you can meet the people you need to meet.
2006-12-04 04:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what the problem is that you're trying to "work out". Do you even know what the problem is? Your question is very vague... but I suspect the relationship is over if after 5 years all you can say is you "some what" love him.
2006-12-04 04:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I commend you for wanting to stay together. Forgiveness is the first step. Then put the past behind you. Be as positive as you can be. Believe in each other again, and the feelings will follow. This works!
2006-12-04 04:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its possible.... you do have to be creative. Do different things, change your routine. Spend time away from each other some times. The key is breaking some of the routines that you have made together once in awhile.
2006-12-04 04:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by U2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to us after 30 years of marriage --- we did not take the time to fall in love again --- take time out for yourselves --- forget work family all other commitments and just spend time together talk all night hold hands a walk around --- sightsee ---- have a take out meal somewhere quiet -- not take it home
2006-12-04 04:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you can.
there is a book called
"getting the love you want"
that gives you specific techniques to revive the love
feelings.
it works.
you can probly get it from the library.
use the techniques.
you can bring all the spark back.
you just need to get some skills to do it.
2006-12-04 04:12:57 · answer #11 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋