If that person wants you to tell them you love them?
2006-12-04 03:51:43 · 32 answers · asked by monick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG! yes it is to early RUN girl!
2006-12-04 03:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's too early. In the beginning of all relationship's it's LUST. Wait atleast 2 or 3 months and then you'll be sure if it's something you really feel. It will become more clear. Hell my bf and I have been dating for 4 months and we still haven't said it. Even though he knows it and I know it we are just scared to say it because we both know that these are not words to be said lightly. Just remember in all new relationship's it's always lust, but if your with that person for longer then there is no question....it's love. Just spend more time with this person. Let your feelings grow some more. So when it is saif for the first time it will mean soooo much more!
2006-12-04 03:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is too early.
You haven't gotten a chance to know ALL of them. Their personality when "so and so" happens...You have to know someone completely , the good and the bad, before you can determine if you truly do love that person or not. Thats why relationships with people now adays don't last as long. They get in the relationship, "fall in love", then find out the bad qualities of the person, and the bad outweighs the good, so they decide they don't love them anymore. If you truly love someone, you don't fall out of love. So be careful, who you tell you love, because you may not know for sure.
2006-12-04 03:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi, i would love to tell you that yeah it is too early however it really depends on how you feel and how they feel. i can say from experience that after one week we said we loved each other and after 3 months we were living together and now after 13 years we are married and have 2 kids and still very much in love. so i say again it really is up to the 2 of you on how you feel and how you want to progress in the relationship and even if it don't work out you both now right now at this moment you both were honest with your feelings and honesty is the best policy. good luck and i hope it works out for ya=)
2006-12-04 03:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talking, as in a Chat room or Messenger.
A person can be fond of someone, like some one...I am not sure you can Love someone in 3 weeks.
Never be coerced into telling someone you Love them...that is a Control Thing.... A power Trip
However, you can use.....Love and Stuff....Luv Ya...Love to you.
Try to avoid: I love you. Too powerful of a statement. Save that for someone whom you are really crazy over;)
2006-12-04 04:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if it's been 1 year if you don't feel that you love them truly then don't say it. Lots of people gets mixed up with love and a strong like for someone. So if you're saying I love you just because they want you to then don't say it. You decide is it time or not!!!!!!!!
2006-12-04 03:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...just talking (email, texts)...? Then no, its way too soon. Or have you actually spent this time together?? If you spent this time together then I would say no, but I would wait a little longer before telling them... Its one thing to start feeling like you want to say it...and another is when the time is right...
Most people will run away when you tell them that you love them... I guess it scares people... Who knows... Just wait a little bit longer...
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-04 03:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that is way to early to tell someone you love them. Wait until you know for sure that you do. I think these words are used to lightly now-adays. Don't tell him that until you have been with him for awhile. You could say something else. Try maybe something like hey I really am into you, or I really like you, you make me feel good. Try something along those lines.
2006-12-04 03:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think 3 weeks is to early to be telling someone that you love them but if you know for sure that they love you back then go for it
2006-12-04 04:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by ~Ta-Ta Licious~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a weird question but I'll give my 2 cents. I think you can actually "love" someone after meeting and/or knowing them for a very short time...(hours). You should know what You like, love and don't. You shouldn't have to tell someone that you love them "for them", it's for you to know and feel in your heart. If you don't love someone or something, don't fake it or lie about it to make them happy. Your happiness should be your #1 priority.
Be Real! Be Yourself...always!
2006-12-04 03:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is too early because obviously you were being forced to say it and you dont mean it. You should never do this because this is dangerous. You are messing with someones feelings and if you were to let them know that you dont love them, they may go psycho and go off and do something nutty. So, only say these words when you mean them
2006-12-04 03:56:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋