this is my 3rd beaten i got in 2 days and another one to come ... this guy is 18 going to coolege ..works and lives a good life !! What is he doing hitting me? But the thing is i likd this and im 15 !! he says i talk alot of **** and i made him get mad at one of his friends !! He said its all over so why am i gonna get beat up again.. and the 2 and 3 beating happen at a club also !! so i dont know what he was tryna proof but ..anyways !! i dont think i deserved it !! we could have talked it out !! and what do you classify them under ??
2006-12-04 03:47:48 · 35 answers · asked by blazzingred30 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A guy that hits a women is crazy. He only does that because he feels that he can not hit a man with out getting his butt kick. Call the cops.
2006-12-04 03:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by redbull_photo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Idiots and a moron, I am in Oregon if he wants to come make me shut up I am right here LMAO! I am a women so his type to beat on. Though he will have to go through the Mr. as well as my three boys....and I am/can be meaner then all those guys lol!
These are control freaks. Usually these kinds of guys do not have much self worth, though they really pretend they do, inside they do not. In reality these kinds have no control, self or otherwise. This can also be taught from father to son. Usually (statistics say) a boy like your b/f has been beat, and his mind has been manipulated by means of physical, mental or sexual abuse.
One who stays with this type of person (women are abusers too) are usually those who feel they can "change" this person. After a while thinking they can not leave this person, which to me is brain washing which is just another manipulation of the mind...
Get away from this kid who is not only hurting you but is breaking the law in many ways....
2006-12-04 04:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is abusive-get away while you still can before he puts you into a hospital bed!!! You know you deserve better so why do you put up with it-he won't change-it will only get worse. he doesn't have the right to lay a finger on you--no man does. Have some respect for yourself and expect to be treated like you are special and precious not like a piece of dirt. I hope you can find the strength within yourself to walk away-he offers nothing but a life of misery. I know you don't want that. Best Wishes!
2006-12-04 03:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by laura_lovely_sweet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all what are you doing at a club at 15? secondly if you know he's gonna do it again what the hell are you still doing there? I know guys it's not that easy but for a 15 yr old it should be. Look you don't sound very mature and he's a wanker maybe you should think about going back home to mum if that is an option.
2006-12-04 03:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by lincoln 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I classify you as troubled and your boy as a chump. Any guy who hits a girl has control and personal issues. Not to be sexists but "most" men can easily beat up a woman. You are not his property, kid, wife, etc. and even if you were you should have enough common sense and self-respect to know that someone who beats on you doesn't give a crap about you.
Does your mother/father/grandmother/grandfather kick your ***? Not talking whoopings, but actually kick your ***? These are people that love you (hopefully) and if they aren't kicking your *** why do you think he should get too.
Tell him to hit another man since he's so tough.... This is the main reason I had boys also, so they can handle these situations for me if they should arise with my daughter. GET A BROTHER/COUSIN/GOOD FRIEND and handle your business.
2006-12-04 03:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the first thing is he should be kicked in the nads for being 18 and going out with a 15 year old. I am sure your older brother or dad would be more then happy to put his lights out. And second what are you doing in a club with this clown. I wonder if his friends know that he is a perverted chic hitting piece of fluge
2006-12-04 03:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girl get yo stuff together. Don't let no Man put his hands on you unless it's your Father whipping that AZ*. Boys tend to show out in front of they friends. How would he like it if his Mother got her AZ* whooped. That's not Cute at all. I think he's a coward to beat up on a girl. It's a cry for help. He either saw his mom's get beat on and thought it was cool. OR he's a punk that won't hit a dude back at all. Scared to fight boys. THIS IS A CHUMP YOU DEALING WITH QUIT HIM.
2006-12-04 03:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by leah d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is terrible. First of all you are 15 and he is 18 well if you slept with him that is considered statutory rape in some states. Second of all who the fu** does he think he is putting his hands on you. Don't stay with this guy for another minute. Talk to your parents and let them know what is happening. You can't go on like this and you need someone to help you. Don't talk to this guy anymore and go and get a restraining order if you need to. You are worth so much more then some guys punching bag. Get away from him now please.
2006-12-04 03:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What this guy does to you is ILLEGAL. Why do you hang around and get beat on? Run, dont walk, away from this guy. If he harasses you, go to the police. You do not deserve to be beat up. Any man who beats on a woman, except in cases of self-defense, is a loser. Dont fall into the domestic violence trap. Get out now.
2006-12-04 03:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by dkiller88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still there after the FIRST beating you got? Get out of there! You're with a little boy who thinks hitting women (underage women, in your case) is okay. Call the police and send him away. Don't even say, "But I love him. You don't know him." because that's just pathetic. (Sorry ladies, but it's true)
Find someone who doesn't beat you before you end up in the hospital or dead.
2006-12-04 04:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mitch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋