Ive been going out with girl for a little more then a year, ive bought her some jewlery and thing like necklaces and stuff like that. She called me the other day asking me where i bought the things i got her, and said if i got it from kay jewlers(really expensive jewlery store) she would feel so special, stupidly i told her yes i did, when really i didnt, but i just couldnt tell her no, i thought she would feel so bad. Now i cant live with the fact that i lied to her about this, what can i do to tell her sorry? (please help me)
2006-12-04 03:45:47 · 21 answers · asked by anthony_adamoa_adamo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her the truth. She isn't going to break up with you because of a little stupid lie like this. It wasn't like you were doing it to hurt her, you were just embarrassed. Just tell her the truth, if she is a good girl, she will probably think that it is pretty funny. I would. Personally, it's really not that big of a deal. So what if she finds out...if she is any girl at all, she wouldn't ask you about it because she wouldn't want you to be embarrassed, because that is obviously why you lied to her.
2006-12-04 03:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would let her know that you didn't tell her the truth and explain why. Tell her you didn't tell the truth cause you were afraid that she would be upset if she knew where it really came from. I know Kay Jewelers very well and you are right they are expensive but they have good stuff. So the point is just tell her you are sorry and tell the whole truth. You probably should tell her right away because if she goes into Kay Jewelers to get her jewelery cleaned or fixed they may tell her that it wasn't purchased there. Tell her before the situation gets any worse then it is. She will probably respect that you were man enough to come and tell her right away. Hey maybe you could take some flowers with you when you go to talk to her. Good luck. Remember every kiss begins with Kay.
2006-12-04 11:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should apologize to you!!!
Why is she being rude and asking where you bought her presents??? That is kinda shallow....unless something happened to the jewelry. Even then she should ask you to bring it back and have it repaired, IF that is the case.
My friend just lied about where he bought his girlfriend an engagement ring. He only lied because he was embarrased, he didn't have much money and so he bought what he could afford.
I think that you should tell her the truth and explain to her that she put you on the spot. You felt that she wouldn't understand that you didn't buy it from Kay. She shouldn't put a price tag on gifts.
I would talk to her about it.
2006-12-04 11:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by moobiemuffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just find it odd that she said she would feel special if you got it from Kay Jewlers...or anywhere...she should feel special that she received gifts, period. Just my humble opinion!
I know that's not your question but yeah, you might want to tell her. If she's asking you if you got it at Kay, sounds like she knows what kind of merchandise they have and can probably easily find out whether or not you got it there pretty easily...and then you'll be in even deeper doo-doo! What if she takes it in there to be repaired or something, and they say it's not originally their merchandise?!
2006-12-04 14:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is happy with what you have told her then why tell her something different. Trust me she isn't going to be happy once you tell her you lied because she is obviously very materialistic and basis your relationship on material items. If you say your sorry you lied then plan on spending the holidays alone which could be a financial gain to you
2006-12-04 11:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT a big deal. You got her thoughtful gifts. Good for you. You are nice guy and obviously one who loves his girl. First of all, it was not in good taste for her to even ASK about where the gifts came from. (You didn't pry them off your dead granny did you?). If you feel that bad...FESS up. Tell her you are sorry for misleading her...but that you hope she'll love the gifts just the same. She should understand...she really shouldn't have asked you to begin with.
2006-12-04 11:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by grittykitty2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. i hate to be so brutally honest, but that was the STUPIDEST thing you've ever done. you may have thought it would make her feel special, but when you lie to someone it just means that you care that much less about them.
ok, if i did something that stupid.... well, there's no easy way out of it. just tell her exactly what you told us, tell her how bad you feel for lying, and buy her roses or something. make sure she knows you don't EVER want to lie to her ever again
2006-12-04 12:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by nanerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u better tell her the truth right away. the sooner the better. just tell her what you just wrot hear. i'm sure she would accept your apology. but if she gets all mad about not buying the stuff from the place you said she wanted, then that girl is no good for you.
2006-12-04 11:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you got her jewellery at the "Everything for a Dollar" store, you would most likely be better off by not telling her.
2006-12-04 11:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
replace those jewlery with the real thing & don't put your foot in the mouth the next time
2006-12-04 11:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋