What is it when a girl uses me for her "convenience". People say that this girl is doing this to me...., but what exactly is it? The situation is that I told her that I liked her (like an idiot), but she doesn't like me. I've moved on since, but my friends are still saying she's using me for her own "convenience"?
2006-12-04 03:34:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you ******* her???
2006-12-04 03:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by East Bay Punk 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This means that when she needs to feel desired or needs an ego boost, she calls you up and chats. She may even ask you to hang out with her so that she can experience your admiration for her. Who doesn't like being swooned over? Of course, on the other hand she has no real feelings for you so when other men come her way, she forgets you exist for the time. My advice is to continue talking to her if you want her as a friend, but you will have to push aside any feelings for her. It might be better to break off the friendship too.
2006-12-04 11:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by grittykitty2007 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your friends are trying to be protective, and they don't seem to realise they're insulting you as well by saying she's using you.
She'd only be using you if she went out with you and didn't respect you, or if she took gifts from you and then was horrible behind your back, which doesn't sound like it at all.
She was honest, it hurt at the time, it's better now. Tell your friends to back off, or better still ignore them.
2006-12-04 11:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by internits 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the truth is she most liklly likes you but she just wont admit it because she is afrade of what her friends think of her,and what they will think of her if she dates you the best thing to do at a time like this is don't worry about what any one else says just ride it through
2006-12-04 11:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tina S 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
They probably mean that she is using you for personal gain of some sort. She knows you like her and you'll do things for her, so she uses that to her advantage.
2006-12-04 11:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jinx 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're better off not dealing with her. It's sad she's doing that to you but some people are like that. Don't let her use you anymore!
2006-12-04 11:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Shes using you.
2006-12-04 11:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is called a True Bioacth
2006-12-04 11:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
how can she use you for her convenience if you moved on? this does not make sense...
2006-12-04 11:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by tonaloha 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get over her. you dont want to be with a girl who's mean do you? i say you could do WAY better.
2006-12-04 11:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by blah b 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Um you asked this question already try looking at the next one then you'll see my answer. :-)
2006-12-04 11:39:27 · answer #11 · answered by Precious S 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋