Ex told me to call him?

Question

My ex broke up with me 5 weeks ago. We both still loved eachother bu the needed time alone to get his life together, and we were fighting constantly about little things.

2 weeks ago, he text messaged me one night and called me the next. I waited 2 days and the called him back. We chatted for about twenty minutes (very casual conversation). At the end he told me to call him sometime and that we should get together for coffee.

I never called him b/c everyone told me that I have to let him contact me, dont be at his beck adn call and so o. I still love him and want to be with him. Should I call him now? Is it too late? Why did he want to get together? Is he mad that I didnt call? etcc.

Any help would be appreciated

Answer 1

if you want to call him... then call him... do whatever you think is best for you.... and only you... just because someone is telling you something that doesn't mean that they are right...

Answer 2

If you two still love each other, then it wouldn't hurt to call him. He did make the first move and call you the first time. So get together and talk. If nothing else, don't loose a good friend.

Answer 3

Since he making contact of sorts, it sounds like he doesn't want to get pushy with you. Ask him if he's ready to try a date yet, and see if that gives him a stronger signal.

Answer 4

DOn;t do it enless you still really love him he could just want your advice on another grl so just try to hold out

Answer 5

Well for starters is there any chance of you two getting back togethre if so wok it out if its space you need then so be it. Good luck.............

Answer 6

He broke up with you to "have some space". It was his decision.Let him call you!