with a guy, even if your not dating, just seeing eachother casually, if you really like him?
do guys like to have SOME sexual activity before they ask a girl out on a date?
2006-12-04 03:32:06 · 23 answers · asked by Special Lady!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So long as you are both adult about it, are not hurting anybody, and play safe, then there is no harm whatsoever in enjoying yourselves.
2006-12-04 03:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is it OK? Sounds like you are asking for permission. If you are an adult and he is an adult then you legally can do anything that you want to and that's perfectly OK. You know what your body wants and if you want him to do it to you then great.
However, if what you are really asking is 'is it a good idea?' then the answer if different. If you really like this guy and want a relationship with him then you need to make sure that you share more activities than just sex-related ones. It is up to you how soon in a relationship you start doing sexy things, some people say starting too soon is bad for the relationship but I haven't found that to always be the case as long as you have lots of other things in common.
If you are just seing him casually then you need to be careful of getting too involved emotionally if he is just in it for the sex. If you both just want casual sex (and you are using appropriate protection) have fun, but don't risk getting your heart broken by giving everything to a guy that you really like, when all he wants is casual sex.
2006-12-04 04:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by SmartBlonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you're gonna do this you have to have your head very clear about what is going on. I have a friend that I do this with that I am not dating...but we have been upfront about what is happening I know I will never date this guy...for me, if there is a guy that I really like and there is a chance of dating him than I don't think I would have sex with him until atleast after the first date
2006-12-04 03:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, in general I think it's ok. BUT if you actually really like this guy then I wouldnt cos things get confusing, and you never really know whether you are liked in a long term potential way or just a short term fling type of way. And that will mess with your head. If you really like him, dont do it, wait til the other aspects of the relationship solidify. If he's serious he will like you for you and not worry about whether he is getting any. If he is just after some short term fun, he will lose interest and move on, thus saving you from massive heartache.
2006-12-04 03:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you start having SOME sexual activity guy, what's going to stop him from having MORE THEN SOME sexual activity with you the next time?
2006-12-04 03:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's something you have to decide on your own. Really its about you and what you put out there. Personally if I'm really into a guy, and we're just seeing each other casually but I'm really wanting to date him - I'd hold off sex until we're actually together. And for me its just I think a guy might respect you better if you're not just giving it up to him so quick.
2006-12-04 03:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is comprehensible that you opt for to have sex (quite a lot each man or woman from a at the same time as 13 and up opt for to) yet 13 is way too early, i'm 15 and decide to have sex like numerous young ones yet even if that if given the prospect i'd refuse, i does no longer be able to seem my dad and mom contained in the eyes without feeling disgrace, I advise you wait till you're a minimum of 17, that is my plan. supply your self time to mature both psychically, and mentally.
2016-11-23 16:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure they wouldn't mind some sexual activity before they ask you out on a date but it is kind of up to you since it takes two to tango
2006-12-04 03:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's OK I've had casual relationships with guys before and they were the most exciting times in my life, however, don't feel pressured into casual sex unless your sure it's what you want, and don't just expect that a relationship will be the natural progression cause it may not happen. good luck.
2006-12-04 03:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't believe in it. I don't think you should have sexual relations with a person before your going out. Or even just for casual sake. At the very least you could be going out.
2006-12-04 03:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by Marlena 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its perfectly fine, so long as you know were you stand. If this guy hasnt asked u out before he asked to jump into bed with you, then the likely hood of it is that he never will. If you're just in it for the one night though then go for it.
2006-12-04 03:40:03 · answer #11 · answered by x_glitterxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋