I've been w/my boyfriend for a year & 2 months now & we haven't had any relationships bcause I'm a virgin going on to 22 years old how do I know when it's the right time???
2006-12-04 03:26:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no right time, if your 22 just do it with a guy you care about whenever you feel like it
2006-12-04 03:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know its the right time when YOU feel comfortable. I think its awesome that you have waited, and still are waiting to lose your virginity. It shows that you really care about yourself and have respect for yourself and you dont just want to lose it just to say you lost it. Do it when you feel comfortable doing it. You will know when its the right time to do it, but dont let your boyfriend pressure you into doing anything that you dont want to do. Make sure this boyfriend is the right guy to lose it to. You dont want to lose your virginity to the wrong person, it sounds that since you guys have been together this long, that he might hold an important part in your life and take that into consideration when your thinking of when you want to, although only do it when you feel 100% comfortable doing it. Virginity is something you cant get make, so choose wisely. Good luck in everything you do.
2006-12-04 11:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right time comes when you are comfortable enough with him, you, and the relationship...and you are ready to accept any consequences be it pregnancy, a breakup, whatever...I don't think you will regret it. For me, virginity it over-rated. If you meet someone special and they prove they are trust-worthing and you WANT to have sex?? What's the issue? We're adults. Enjoy the time you have with him in whatever way you choose. Just remember once you start, sex takes the relationship to a different level. It becomes another factor. Not necessarily a bad thing...but it could be. Sometimes it complicates things. But if you are ready for sex, as I said before you are ready to deal with the consequence of having it. Later.
2006-12-04 11:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by grittykitty2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let no one pressure you, remember you have one of the most precious things that God gave you, so don't just give it to anyone. You will have feelings, and you will know when the time is right. so just be friend for a while, so you can find how a person is. and remember it is a lot of disease out their, so protect yourself!
2006-12-04 11:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear cherries,you really wanna know when is the right time?,marry him first and then you will be making a 100% sure that it's really the right time,otherwise if you give it to him,either he'll enjoy it for sometime and dump you or still enjoy but eventually lose interest and bye bye,and lucky you if don't get pregnant,please make sure he's the one and only!!!,you'll know he's the right one when your feelings won't even make you ask what you just did!!!!
2006-12-04 11:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by GMORAM29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready, you will feel it in your gut.If he's the right guy he will wait and if not go on with life and chalk it up to experience.Don't do it just because he is ready. I think guys are born ready.They don't associate sex with love as women do.Good Luck
2006-12-04 11:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by AnnaB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get married to him. You have been saving yourself all this time for the man that TRULY loves and wants to be with YOU. Don't ruin it or blow it now. AIDS, a child out of wedlock and other diseases aren't worth it.... life is precious and so are you for keeping your gift to yourself and not giving it away. If he loves you, then he will marry you and then he is the one worthy of your love of pure love......... blessed be and I am really proud of you as a woman keeping YOU to YOU.
2006-12-04 11:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you're married. did you wait this long to give him your heart and still have the risk he'll leave. i know you think he might not or that you love him but you deserve to have the security of a ring. at least that's how i know when the time is right for me. gl
2006-12-04 11:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best sex is never planned, so you'll know when the time is right. Just don't think too much, that's all. And NO backseats for the first one, ok?
2006-12-04 11:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by MICHAEL G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well really you just know. when i lost my virginity i was 18 and i love this person so i knew it was the right time and i don't hold back. if you don't think its the right time don't do it.
2006-12-04 11:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋