I was going out with this guy that I fall manly in love but that I starting to get very sad and worry because I was scare to lost him to someone else. So, I borke up with him. He couldn't be happy with me like that. But I can't stop my heart from hurting. I feel like I can live any longer. I want to make it so but I don't know why. I never love anyome like this. Why now and why with this guy...?
2006-12-04 03:13:01 · 12 answers · asked by Shy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You let him into your heart, it took time to do this, now it's going to take time to let it all out.
it's not like an on / off switch.
It's like filling a swimming pool with a garden hose, it took time to fill your heart with love, now you have to drain your love of him, like emptying a pool. it's going to take time.
your not along, this has happened to others not once but many times. you are young and have a lot of love to give.
2006-12-04 03:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by Juggernaut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off sounds like your not really ready for a relationship. thats one of the lamest excuses i've heard. (sorry if i sound like a ***** but this is just what i think) you say u dont want to lose him to eanyone else, but yet you break up with him? which leaves him to look for someone else?? that just sounds pretty silly to me. if your honest with eachother and you guys like each other mutually then there should be no problem. sounds like your insecure about your relationship because you wouldnt be thinking that. either he's done something or you've done something to have that idea in your head. were always scared tol ose the ones we love but just remember everything happens for a reason. if your relationship is strong than you have nothing to fear. if you guys end up apart then u know it wasnt meant to be. if you really dont want to be with this guy anymore, your gonna feel hurt. no avoiding that because ur hurt. i've done the same thing in the past and i look back at it now and see that it was just an excuse not to get hurt..breaking up with people but then you hurt people and thats never good. al you can do is let yourself heal and eventually you'll get over it. if not then explain to him why u did what you did and just go on from there. hope everything works out!
2006-12-04 11:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by stefanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How should every girl be treated
As if without her you're not completed
And when her world is rocked with emotion
She should feel our unswaying devotion
And when she wants more and more
Still we'll hold that open door
And when her world is coming apart
She will know she still has our heart
I hope this get's the attention of the right girl so she will contact me too.
2006-12-04 11:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn from your experience and move on. This is going to break up sooner or later because of the way it was handled from the begining. Too much has happened. You will get over him. It may take a couple of months, but you will and you'll be a better person because of the experience.
2006-12-04 11:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, time heals all wounds..clearly you have self-esteem issues. First and foremost you need to learn how to love yourself. You sound rather young, so know this..this guy won't be the last one you fall for and life will go one..so stop trippin, get your tears out, and go for a walk.
2006-12-04 11:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Smittie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a young woman who has had her first case of puppy love. Time is your best friend right now. Get busy with friends and activities you like and you will move on eventually. I know it hurts terribly but you really will heal.
2006-12-04 11:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-04 11:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and explain to him why you broke up with him. Ask that he sit and talk to you and hopefully he'll be still willing to do this. It'd be better for you to stay with him and keep himself and yourself happy rather than watch him walk arm and arm with a new women. Call him!!!
2006-12-04 11:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WERE IN THE SAME SHIP GIRL!!! TRUST ME TIME WILL HEAL YOUR HEART=) I WAS GOING TO GET MARRIED HE BROKE UP W/ ME AND IT HURT, BUT WHAT HURT THE MOST IS THAT 3MONTHS LATER HE GOT MARRIED TO SOME OTHER CHICK!!! NOW HE'S MARRIED AND HE STILL WANTS TO BE WITH ME. THIS WILL ONLY MAKE YOU STRONGER=) KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!!!!!! =) IF YOU NEED TO TALK E-MAIL ME=)
2006-12-04 11:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by Maribel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let fear cheat you out of happiness.
Can't you see, you caused your fear to manifest itself!
Your fear was the one who stole him from you, not anyone else.
Drop that insecurity and you will be fine.
2006-12-04 11:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by Leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋