me and my boyfriend have each other password so i check and he had 400 messges from other girls what do i do
2006-12-04 03:11:17 · 11 answers · asked by KEIOLA R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there's not trust in your relationship, there's no relationship to begin with. Sorry.
2006-12-04 03:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've done it too. It's not that I do not trust my man...it's that I am a naturally curious and distrusting person. I also check his computer history. Honestly, I do not think it is such a big deal. It's not a deal breaker in my mind. I've actually been in a similar situation only what I found was tons of porno in his history. I confronted him about it. Yes, he was mad at me for looking and I admitted I had done wrong...but there is also more to the story. The only reason I looked to begin with was because I kept catching him looking at pictures of girls on the internet when I thought I wasn't around. I would walk into the room and he would exit off the page quickly (But not quick enough if you know what I mean). So I became suspicious and instead of confronting him them and there, I did some investigating. Yikes...never know where that will lead. Anyway, eventually you will have to talk about it with him. It's up to you how long you wait and for how long you look for a reason to bring it up with him.
2006-12-04 11:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by grittykitty2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on....be realistic people. You know if you have access to check your signficant other's emails, you're probably going to do it. You're human! Advice is against it, but we're human and we're curious and if you have a key to unlock a door, you're gonna use it. I don't necessarily think it's "right" and good couples should not be hiding things from each other. If you have nothing to hide, then going in to each others' emails should not be a problem anyway.
2006-12-04 11:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if he had anything to hide you would not have his password,or him yours. So you must have trust in him. It's more who he is sending to and not who is sending. If the relationship hasn't changed then don't look for problems. Talk to him and let him know your concerns and I am sure that talking will bring you to where you are more comfortable about the situation. Be blessed.
2006-12-04 11:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong to spy on him. So you will have to try to forget about the messages from the other girls until you legitimately find a better reason not to trust him.
2006-12-04 11:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or that isn´t really a serious relationship or you must send 400 e-mails to other guys to match.
2006-12-04 11:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Charles Brown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
400?? i guess it depend on what you want to find out and once you do what are you willing to do about it. if you decide to read any of these you may not like what you find out.but at the same time if there is nothing in any of them indicating he is doing any thing wrong, he is going to mad at you for reading them. so you decide whats more important.
2006-12-04 11:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong you have to be prepared for what you do find out
2006-12-04 11:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong to check email babes, sorry
2006-12-04 11:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes yes yes yes it is so stop it dont do it that is called invasion of privacy get it so stop !!!
2006-12-04 11:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋