Ok, I am tha guy from a few months ago..who couldnt get over that girl...I would post the same questoin ever day. Now granted, I have matured since then, and realize hwo immatue that was. But the truth is, I'm not over that girl yet, and I dont think I ever will be. I really , truely do love her. Me and her now, are like really good friends, and I so desperatly want something to happen. And every time I'm around her, my feelings grow stronger. I love her...what should i do?"?? But..theres more to it...I've known her since I was seven. So weve been good friends for several years. I've had many crushes b4. But this is soo different. I want her to be happy. When she's mad, I'm mad. IDK..its just so weird and crazy. And she used to feel sumthin over the summer...and now its gone. and she's almost goin out with my bestfriend. But I dont know i just love her so much. And if theres anything I can do, or anything i shouldnt do please tell me.
2006-12-04 03:07:21 · 19 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not coming across desperate, cuz after a spilled my guts to her, and she turned me down ( about 3 months ago)a month after taht ..she wanted the friendship baack she was asking for it back not me...so im friends with her but underneath i still like her
2006-12-04 03:15:21 · update #1
dont hold anything back talk to her about it tell her how much you love her and dont hold anything back dont be scared dont give her the chance to go out with your best friend get to her before he does ask her out go for it dont be scared
2006-12-04 03:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by you dont know me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok pet dont be so hard on urself i know how its feels the more she pushs u away the more u want her...ill tell sum thing thats sucks,but u have to start to carry on everything,if your good friends then u might have a chance in a few years.u cant make someone love u if they dont. so my best advice is 2 stop beening around her so much your not doing urself any favours.i dont mean u have to stop seen her but just urself a time out. and sort out ur life she doing ok without u so its time be brave. its going to be different but it will make u a better man and stonger man so chin u and best of luck
2006-12-04 03:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is......
STOP showing her that you are totally into her. She knows you will be there, she knows she has you wrapped around her little finger. Don't do what she would expect from you, try to be different than you normally would be. Women like a challenge just as men do. And your feelings are probably growing stronger for her because she IS a challenge to you. It's not good to be a little puppet for someone. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-04 03:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by starlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....I kinda have been in the same spot as you. I think you need to talk to her and just tell her how you feel. Even though it may be really hard for you to do. You just need to get some balls and do it. I know you are afraid of what she might say to you. But you will never know how she feels if you don't talk to her. And you could lose what chance there may be left for something to happen between you two. So just suck it up and go for it.
2006-12-04 03:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by greenlantern28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've felt like that before. and i never told the guy i liked. That was 4 years ago i regret it now, i moved house and i don't see him anymore. i'm 17 and i usually fall hard 4 guys. You shud tell her and see what happens/you'll go on regretting it. There was this boy i was friends with, we sat next to each other at school and we will fight each other, call each other names. My heart will jump when i see him, i made him a big choco cake, i gave him a huge easter egg. I liked him loads and loads, and it was driving me crazy. He found out 6months later, i found out that he doesn't like me in that way. but we are still friends, we still mess about. and its like a weight has been lifted. I do still like him a bit, but i doubt that will go away.
To cut a long story short just go for it, you never know what will happen.
2006-12-04 03:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Chi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was twice in that situation. First time I have lost him as friend and after that I was sorry because I couldn't find friend like him and after that I decided not to go further and to stay only friends until the feelings are not same from both sides. After few years he became my husband
2006-12-04 03:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Try telling her how you feel and maybe she likes you the same way or something you never know untill you try. If she knows you love her and she feels the same she might dump your friend for you. Fair warining love triangles= a big mess.
2006-12-04 03:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is ask her out on a date. Do your best to make it special for her. It doesn't have to be amazing like on TV or the movies, just show her that you think that she's special, & you are willing to do whatever it takes to make her feel special.
2006-12-04 03:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are much too young for your life to be in limbo and she wants to explore other friendships. Start looking some other way and there will be that special someone in your life. For now you have to step back and give her breathing space.
2006-12-04 03:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree wit "you dont know me" on this 1 there is no suck thing as 15 year olds dont know what love mean to who ever said that baby its ok tell her how u feel and dont hold nothing back b4 her and your friend gets serious lol
2006-12-04 03:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by thuggababy15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋