I had a boyfriend, for awhile..I was dating him..He used to call me every day, he stopped doing that..but the thing is, he's a really busy guy so I dunno..but it didn't stop him from calling me when he used to..We had an argument on the phone the other day, I upset him..I'm very confused.
After that, I calmed him down so it seemed like everything was ok.. then he had to go to bed.. How we left, on an ok note,I'm not
sure if we're still together or what..He didn't call me in 5 days..
I didnt talk to him in 4.. I wrote him a note, just to say hi whats up,
in an email and he didnt answer it yet.. I'm not sure what the hell
to do.. I mean,this guy is driving me crazy.. All I do is
look at the last time he called me on my cell phone.I keep thinking
he'll call me, I have no freakin' idea if we're broken up or not...
Can someone please give me advice, I dont know what to do..
And also, this really hurts, please I need help please...I'm desperet for it...
2006-12-04 02:55:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would say that it is over.no matter how busy someone is they can take a few min. out of there day to call someone they care about. more than likely in the past few days he has taken the time to call and order pizza.if he has not even returned your e-mail by now chances are he is not going to. its to bad that he is not man enough to call and tell you its over. he is a coward.
2006-12-04 03:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can kinda understand where you are coming from. I just got over the same kinda of problem. But it lasted for 5 months. And now things between her and I are better. Since it has been a few days and you guys have given it some time to let things cool down. I think you should give him a call and ask him what is going on between you two. I know how bad this can be hurting you. And you just need to ask him what the problem is in your guys relationship. And then you guys need to work things out. Say your sorry even if you don't think you did anything. Tell him you love him and that you want things to work out between the two of you. Just try and talk to him. And if he just wants a little space then try to respect that and give it to him. But tell him that you don't want your relationship to just fall apart just like that.
2006-12-04 03:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by greenlantern28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi the problem today is we are not assertive enough to ask the questions we want to ask. i would go to him or get in contact somehow and say to him what is going on? cause otherwise you will just be sitting there waiting on him and that is no way for anyone to live. good luck and stand up and be strong.=)
2006-12-04 03:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He is not worth it, if you two were meant to be to geather little arguments wouldn't matter. In fact they are healthy. He doesn't care. Just remember, you have to kiss a lot of toads before you find your prince.
2006-12-04 03:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem with us women is that we are born to be faithful to the ones we chose to love..why not try detaching ourselves from the emotion of the idea so that we will not be hurt everytime our guy hides from us or cheats on us?if they decide to just hide from us and not communicate,then don't care about it much and do your usual routine if you can hang your phone just to keep yourself from always calling him up,do so..men tend to get a big head out of our attention to the point that they're already neglecting us..that's why it's time to step up and stand up to this endless cycle men are putting on women's shoulders..make them miss you..make them rattle not hearing from you..so that it'll be them this time who will worry!good luck!
2006-12-04 03:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by rinoa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd have to say you need to leave him a voicemail saying "i want to know if you're ok, or even alive" and add a "i miss you" and if hes a decent guy he'll respond. maybe you should check up on him just to see if he's alright if he doesn't respond. and then if he is ok, then leave him alone b/c he's a jerk. :)
2006-12-04 02:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by bcos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋