It seems every since my bf cheated on me I find it hard 2 trust again. Whenever I'm not with him I think he with another girl. Thoughts just rome through my head, and I can't get them 2 stop.
2006-12-04 02:49:51 · 8 answers · asked by Secret S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey ..
it seems for me , I have trouble as like your
and this thoughts coming because you love your bf real love and you still thinking about him for along time
I want help you to lose this negative thoughts
firstly you must do some things and make your self busy .
secondly you must trust in your bf and he must give you the love and he will try to explain his honest and faithful for you
really i have thoughts as like your negative thoughts and this thoughts will make me lose my gf
so i'm doing hard to lose my negative thoughts cus I love my gf and i never want to lose her
with all my best wishes
MERG
2006-12-04 03:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by merg20056 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to have these thoughts in your head. He crossed a line he shouldn't have. I guess now it's to figure out if he's really trying hard to make you feel appreciated and if he loves you he will tell you where he's been at all times.
This will take a long time to get over but it's your decision now, do you want to keep having negative thoughts for a long time or just move on?
The best of luck to you in whatever you decide.
2006-12-04 02:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He broke that trust and it will take a long time to get over it.
2006-12-04 02:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey do you have yahoo messenger? If so message me, my ID is mspecan_tan. I got the same bad thoughts.
2006-12-04 02:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and you will feel better and won't have to worry,once a cheater always a cheater,you want to live that way,to many guys out there for you that won't cheat on you and respect you.
2006-12-04 02:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well believe me try yoga....helps you concentrate your mind rather than stray and dump negative energy in you.
2006-12-04 02:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him then let him go
2006-12-04 02:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of dating....it's probably not the first time ....and it sure as hell won't be the last....so either dump his *** and move on.....or stay with him and stop your crying...
2006-12-04 02:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Shelley N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋