she does not want to talk to me... she doesnt want me as a friend... she doesnt take my calls or reply to my messages... i love her... only her... and i cant love anybody else... i want her back...
2006-12-04 02:43:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Along as there is still breath.... Don't give up on her if you love her. HOWEVER YOU MUST DO THIS to put the spark in her heart.
1. Drop her cold for 2-3 months, BACK OFF (no calls, emails)
2. Demonstrate EMOTIONAL INDEPENDANCE, let her know when she sees you that you are HAPPY and enjoying your life without her even though you may be dying inside.
3. If you see or happen to speak to her in passing, UNDERSTAY YOUR WELCOME, meaning end the conversation first and leave.
4. Give this some time and you will see that she will begin to see you in a new light.
5. CREATE COMPETITION, start dating other people even it hurts you and you still think about her. It will boost your confidence and draw her to think of you.
She prob. knew she had you which means that there a low level of PASSION(the spark) and she left. People want what they can't have, you make someone feel passion when they feel that they may be losing you. This will be hard but you must do it or you will never see her again...... Good Luck Check out the website below, It worked for me!!!
P.S. If you do get her to come back ignore a little every now and then. Don't be mean...just don't be so available.
2006-12-04 02:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by Queen459789 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is an exchange of hearts between two people. Seems you gave her yours but she did not reciprocate. Now the point is where is her heart? If she has given it to someone else then let her go. If she was ever yours she will come looking for you. If her heart is still with her, then don’t give up try to win it. It is hard work my friend but truly worth it. Make sparks happen, rekindle the flame, do whatever it takes. You can do it!
2006-12-04 07:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wonder how long u can run after such heartless girl who has no consideration for your feelings. Do u need to beg for the love from ur gf. Do you have any respect for your self. Love only matures when it is from both sides. It always gives frustration when it is one sided.
Try to forget her & find someone else in your life. It will work like a kick at her back.
2006-12-04 22:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by Crazy-boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I think no need to tell her anything.If she loved u really then she would not left you in pain like this. She was only sexually attracted i think as she said no spark left.
Let her be happy, one day she will realize that she lost a diamond like you while she was busy collecting stones.
Be happy, care for ur family and let these people do what they think is right, God is with u.
byeeeeee.
2006-12-04 20:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by Aakash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dud y u r waisting ur time 4 a gal who left u by saying no spark left juz go n slap hr tell hr meaning of love n ask wt spark she wan if she cn leave u nw 4 spark wts guarantee dat if she come she will live with u she will again left u so better to find new gal who cn understand u who dont wan spark ok stop waisting time on hr
2006-12-04 03:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by nainjot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude - I am so sorry. That totally sucks. You have two options: fight, or let it go. 99% of the time, the right thing to do in your situation is to let it go. She has moved on already. Her heart has changed, and there's probably somebody else in her life.
Find another girl and move on. It will hurt in the shorttern, but you'll find someone much better suited to you in time.
2006-12-04 02:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by cheeseburger24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on with your life. she has made it clear that she doesn't want anything to do with you. Let it go. I know it hurts and it will hurt for awhile but hopefully you are an individual that has interests and hobbies on your own that you can concentrate on and be busy with. Go out with your friends and enjoy being the awesome individual that you are. You are an unique person that I'm sure have a lot to offer to yourself and to others....
2006-12-04 02:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by tonaloha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dear.... u better know the reason y she dumped u.. u r not that clear in ur question.. if u really love her n she too then juzz go to her & talk openly or may b asks watz rong..propose her again & tel her ur feelings.Dont go onto her..or give her sum time give her a bit gap.. then tell her that u cant think of any day widout her.
best luck!
2006-12-04 03:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ae Majnoo.Go out and you will see that you find someone better.Woman like that is not worth wasting time.You are lucky,she did not do it to you after marriage and run away with milk man.
2006-12-05 14:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt take care of her when she was with you now give her break and say to her you will not reapat the same mistakes and you should mean it
2006-12-04 02:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by cupiddear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋