Now that I went and did what I did (staying the night at a male friends house) my boyfriend has said I was not aloud to talk to any of them again. What gets me upset is its not ok for me to talk to my guy friends but its ok for him to talk to his ex and her best friend. I asked him about and he said that he wasnt going to stop talking to them because they are his friends but yet the guys who I stayed the night with are nothing but friends as well. I find it messed up that its ok for him but not ok for me. I have full trust in him that he wouldnt go of and o anything but I o believe he is in the wrong when he says who I can and cant talk to. Im not totally ok with blowing my friends off but I do love him and I do have that much respect I wish that he felt the same. What is your opinion about this?
2006-12-04 02:41:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what's good for the goose is good for the gander as the saying goes. Why is he so passionate about you not being with your guy friends but he can talk to his? You say you trust him, but it's obvious he doesn't trust you. Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone that has no trust for you? I would continue to see my guy friends and be very honest with him about it. Don't lie and then see your guy friends. Be honest always that way he can't throw it in your face. He is just going to have to accept it or you may want to step make and rethink this relationship that you are in.
2006-12-04 02:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by tonaloha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you expect? Staying the night at another man's house was a spectacularly stupid thing to do. And he's handling it with all the grace and maturity of a 4 year old. You two are perfect for each other.
2006-12-04 02:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Stretchy McSlapNuts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either give up all your friends, or find a new boyfriend. Sounds like he might be a control freak.
2006-12-04 02:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can't tell you whom not to talk to, that is abusive on his part. He sounds like a control freak. not good. Don't lose your friends for him, becaue if you do, when you guys break up you'll end up all alone. Your friends are more important than him.
2006-12-04 02:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by Atousa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a bit controlling to me. if he says who you can and can't be friends with, then he is either jealous, or worse yet, doesn't trust you.
2006-12-04 02:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by By Your Command 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We guys have big egos and only trust ourselves. I suggest you do as you're told.
2006-12-04 02:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
where does he get the right to tell u what u r allowed to do?
2006-12-04 02:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think even though you trust him he doesn't trust you.
2006-12-04 02:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by ILOVEMYKIDS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋