remember about this girl i told you about?charlotte? what should i do? shy said no! she said that she wants to focus on her lessons more but her freinds told me that she still likes me but i dont believe them i am in a mess please help i am confused i dont know who to believe!!
2006-12-04 02:34:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She said no.... she probably does like you, she didn't say she didn't, but she did say she wants to focus on her lessons which means exactly what she says.
Just back off a little and give her some space. She needs to focus on her lessons and get a good education.
Wish i had listened when i was told this, but basically a good education means a good job, means good money, means better quality of life (didn't say better life tho) and more opportunities available! Then she has all the time in the world to find a decent young man. And if you wait and are still close that guy could be you? (Eternal optimist!!)
In short, support her study, she's being wise. take heed.
2006-12-04 02:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I don't know the previous conversation or question but I don't need to know it to give you an answer. If SHE said no then believe and listen to her cause only she knows how she feels. Everyone else can say what they want but she's told you how she feels right now. Respect her for that.
2006-12-04 11:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jontue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd listen to Charlotte! Back off! Maybe she'll come round in time but it seems like you're intimidating her and pushing her away at the moment!
2006-12-04 10:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept her decision! This may be more attractive to her. Focus on having a beautiful, fun friendship, and the relationship will automatically happen...it did for me:)
2006-12-04 10:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by *+* Miss NATION*+* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she said that she needs to focus on her lessons so why don't you just do the same an move on
2006-12-04 10:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit on one of her friends. She'll get so jealous those lessons would be forgetten. Plus, you may actually get to hook up with them both. ;-)
2006-12-04 10:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hang around waiting on her, what happens if you miss the bus? thats right you catch another one.
2006-12-04 11:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh id give anything to be young again!
2006-12-04 10:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by devine_gem22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to swim...
2006-12-04 10:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on, NO MEANS NO!
2006-12-04 10:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by Jack Knauf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋