If they come on to you and there husband treats them like crap
I do it all the time i need affection too -
all the single girls my age are holding out for "Mr Perfect" and have these unreasonable expectations of how a man should be and I end up having to make myself a player just to get one to talk to me - and the next step after player is pimp and i dont want to be that guy -
the married woman come on to me because they need affection there husband wont give them and I dont have to put on this "flashy" bling bling image for them
2006-12-04 02:30:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes anytime you have sex with married woman or anyone who is married and not to you....then it's wrong. SO to answer your question... YES
2006-12-04 03:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jontue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in the shoes of those husbands....would you like someone sleeping with your wife?? My guess is probably NO! Those women made commitments....in the eyes of God and Man.....
You should probably raise your standards to a level that maybe you could be one of those Mr. Perfects that girls your age are looking for.....they really aren't looking for perfect..but they certainly aren't gonna have any interest in a man who sleeps with another mans wife......
Time to take a look at the inner you......flashy bling bling isn't the answer to any woman who want true love!~
2006-12-04 02:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what if your mom was doing this your dad or your grandparents or your sister was getting cheated on or what if you had a daughter and her husband was cheating on her would that be right how would you feel i mean come on now .they women made the chioce to married there husband andshe know who she was marring. she can always get a divorce and as far as you dont have to put on the flashy act well maybe you are looking for your girls in the wrong place because not all woman want the blingbling as you said hell there is single women out there who just want sex just as much as you and guess what they are single wow .hey what would happen if he walked in and caught you sleeping with his wife got a gun and shot you and you didnt die just got brain damage you would have to live your life like a veggie just because you want a cheap piece from a loser of a wife ( some one elses ) mind you
i hope you change your outlook on things and i wish you all the luck
2006-12-04 02:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by harleygirled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wrong if there is a problem in her marriage she needs to be the one to either end it, fix it,and quit putting herself out there on the single market if she is still married regaurdless of how thinks maybe in her marriage. Do you really want to be involved with a married woman and be the reason for her divorce and the mess her kids will be involved in afterwards. You seem like a great guy but if you want a woman get one thats not married without all the baggage. You do whatever I am not judging you but I think it would be better if she divorced before moving on.
2006-12-04 02:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, IT IS DEFINITELY WRONG! Also, you should take into account the fact that you're not doing yourself any favors by getting involved with someone who's already taken. More often than not, these women are just using you because they have some needs that aren't being met. They aren't coming on to you because they think you could be the love of their life. If you get involved with someone, you don't want to be put on the back burner, and that's usually what happens when you get involved with someone who's married or otherwise taken.
2006-12-04 02:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by tangerine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
The rest of your story is a mixture of truth and excuse.
Everyone needs positive attention, but that doesn't justify either a woman seeking romantic attention from another man or that other man give it to her.
First off, men and women are different. If a wife is expecting her husband to be like her, she'll have a full-time job trying to fix him (when he's not broken). Typically, men don't communicate very often and opening about their feelings. So, if she tries to make him do it, he'll feel like a clam being ripped open.
If a man is asked how he feels, assuming he answers truthfully he'll say: "I feel horny." or, "I'm hungry." or "I'm tired."
Women who seek romance outside of marriage very often are simply missing real communication of feelings. They want to know details of things that men may think are insignificant, not because they are nosey but because they want intimacy in all life of their husband.
Husbands typically are block-headed about what their wives need in order to feel appreciated and loved. They treat their trucks with better expressions of care (washes, regular oil changes, etc) than they do their wives.
A husband who does not romance his wife leaves her susceptible to a guy like you. You shouldn't take pride in being a part of the dismantling of a marriage.
Be man enough to tell women to spend their attentions on their own husband and maybe to seek couples counseling.
2006-12-04 02:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by asperens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is nothing wrong to share her desier with you, i can understand how would she felt when the husband didn't treat her well, just being careful and extra cautious. Most married woman are going thru pain in with their partners this is one way to release their stress.
2006-12-04 20:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by Suppi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's different to say that you're going to go after married women because single ones are too hard to get than to say that you're going to go after a married woman because you've fallen head over heels in love with her.
Saying that you're going to change your mandate to target married women really isn't ever going to be ethically acceptable.
2006-12-04 02:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by cheeseburger24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there must be a reason behind it. its not right for any spouse to cheat on each other. and you would be smart to stay away. why get in between something that is not good. would you like it if you were married to her and she was doing that to you. I really don't think you would. If shes that unhappy in the marriage she should get out of it.
2006-12-04 02:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes its wrong even if their husband treats them bad. If they want to look elsewhere then they need to leave there husbands first. Unless you want to be a main cause of why they leave.
2006-12-04 02:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by mommy2sam 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES ITS WRONG!!!!
But its true what you are saying and its a hard choice because you feel bad for them...
Don't do it... It might be fun for a while, but then you'll have feelings for a married woman and she won't leave her husband for you...
Just walk away...
Good luck!!!
2006-12-04 02:33:24 · answer #11 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋