I love him very much i've never felt this way towards any other guy iI mean I cry, laugh, get angry and happy with him. Only thing is i'm in texas and he's in north carolina were both 16 and hopefully we will be able to be together when were 18 i'm very serious about him but not really sure if he is about me sometimes I feel like i'm pathetic for holding on to him like i'm waiting for something that's probably not going to happen anyway I found out he's been calling my cousin asking her to have phone sex with him I don't really care if he talks to her but telling her she sounds cute and what he wants her to do my cousin said she didn't feel right so she told me everything even though he told her not to tell me and the only reason he has her # is because I had to borrow her phone because I didn't have mine for a whole week and ever since I got my phone back he's been calling my cousin it's been like three or four days that this has been happening and i don't know what to do please help
2006-12-04 01:37:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. You're too young and your life will completely change when you graduate high school. Find someone new and you'll be able to move on. But be comfortable with yourself first.
2006-12-04 01:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't stay with him.
Move on. If he can do that with your cousin, you don't want to know what else he is going to do with someone you don't know. Also, the distance is a hindrance for you two to be together which will make it difficult for you to have a lasting relationship at this point, especially since you don't know for sure that he is serious. Besides, you are much too young to be making these longterm decisions. It takes more experience and exposure to different personalities for you to make a wiser decision. You never know who you might meet that will be the absolute perfect person for you, and then, there will be no doubts.
2006-12-04 09:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Dream Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was quite a run on sentence. :) Listen, I know this probably seems like the end of the world right now. But this guy isn't as serious about you as you are him. This has happened to all of us - trust me. You're a smart girl - you know in your heart that you deserve someone who will be faithful to you and at such a young age it's hard enough finding a guy that isn't going to cheat let alone trying a long distance relationship.
Let him go - and take comfort in the fact that one day he'll have ~his~ heart broken. Find someone who's willing to offer the same things you are. You deserve that.
Good luck!
2006-12-04 09:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by razor_sharp_redhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find another, better man. You are too young for the stress of a long distance relationship. You should move on an find a new boyfriend. Plus what you like in a guy when you're 16 is not what you're gonna like at 18.
2006-12-04 09:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Tristen T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life and forget about this boy. He's not faithful, he's in a different State, and he's Stupid (for calling your cousin). You should tell your cousin thank you for telling you about him, then stop taking his calls. If he will have phone sex with your cousin, he would have real sex with anybody.
Did you meet this dummy on-line, if so stop doing that I'm sure that there are boys better than this dummy in your own State, probably even in your own school.
2006-12-04 09:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he just got your cousin's telephone number and he is asking her for phone sex, that is a problem. He is not showing respect for women. I would say that you need to look for another guy.
You will find another guy who you can laugh with, cry with, be happy with and even get angry with and trust. Without trust a relationship is meaningless. Your long distance relationship does not appear to be based upon trust and therefore it will fail.
You should tell him that you know about his infidelity and then break up with him.
Take care,
Troy
2006-12-04 09:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the age of sixteen - Girls fall in lurve, and are ready to settle down - Guys on the other hand, have raging testosterone levels, that surge out of control, wanting to flirt with and bonk anything that moves and if it doesn't they'll push it......don't get caught up with the serious side of things now, you will find in 10 yrs that you will ask yourself how could you have possibly fallen for him, and be much happier you moved on.
2006-12-04 09:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by shez_a_maneater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my gosh! First of all, you probably do not know for absoluely sure how old he is. He could be much, much older than 16. Seriously, he could be one of these online child predators.
I highly recommend that you forget his ***, and tell your cousin that she needs to stop talking to him.
Even if he is only 16, he certainly has a problem, and he is definitely not one to get serious about.
Immediately stop talking to this ***. He is not worth your time or your being upset and concerned.
Best of luck to you.
2006-12-04 09:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by peekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him if he stops messing with your cousin I'm in texas too and im in love with someone in bastrop,LA. Oh yeah the next time you borrow someones phone to call your bf erase the # (even if it's your cousin).
Good Luck Victoria!
2006-12-04 09:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by Da #1 Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think that is the only guy you are ever going to love? There are millions of guys out there. Quit dwelling on the sack of sh*t, get out and start meeting other guys. Don't settle for one that treats you like that. There is someone out there for you (hell there are lots) you just gotta start looking. The best way to get over someone is with someone else.
2006-12-04 09:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish with him. It may not only be your cousin he is asking for phone sex or cheating behind your back. Find someone in texas that you can keep on eye on!!!
2006-12-04 09:41:45 · answer #11 · answered by Dannie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋