HEy yu'll i was dating a gie named johnathon we went out for four weeks and he dumped me before my birthday i asked him why he broke up with me. He said that he dosn't love me the way he used to . Then at school people came up to me and said the reason he broke up with me is that he was going out with his neighboor and that hes been cheating behind my back and that hes been having sex with other girls. I asked him if that was true he lied and said that it was all lies. Should i believe him? hes been asking me out and i dont answer. HELP me out here should i go back out with him? Or just move on with . Help me out!!!!!!!
2006-12-04 01:37:09 · 10 answers · asked by sexydoll3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know the feeling - I was seeing a girl earlierthis year and we got very close, although she was hot-and-cold, so we eventually broke up. She broke my heart, as I loved her to pieces, but looking back I should have realised and gotten out sooner... she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship, wanted to see other guys, tried to get things back together with her ex and told me she wanted to find her perfect guy.
I had to cut my losses, and so said my final goodbyes and told her never to contact me again. Months on, unfortunately, she calls and we meet up and get close again... not sure what she wanted, but for my own sanity, I left her and haven't spoken since, despite her calling me again.
I'd recommend doing the same... it's hard at first, but believe me, you'll look back and realise what the relationship was and you'll find someone much better who you'll love and will love you too... I might have just found her last night...
Good luck, and never let anyone take you for second best.
2006-12-04 01:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by James 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
He said he doesn't love you the way he used to. Even if the rumours aren't true, he still hurt you.
4 weeks is a short time. How the hell did he fall in love and out of love with you in 4 weeks! That's insane, and the truth is, he probably never loved you. He's just confused, so leave him to it. He probably didn't intend to hurt you, but that isn't your problem.
You sound like a caring person, just enjoy life and stay well clear. If he talks to you, remain friendly but be direct and firm and let him know that you're not interested and aren't there to be someone for him to mess around.
2006-12-04 01:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) If you really trust and love him, still, you have to confirm whether he was cheating behind your back. So at least, you can decide your next step more affirmly.
2) Move on, you deserve much better than a punk who dumps you before your birthday.
Take care babe. :)
2006-12-04 01:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by icerux23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move On Girl. Your young and there are alot of better, smarter, more appreciative men out there. I know cuz i have one now, n i love him to death. But I feel u cuz i was with my ex for two years when he decided to cheat on me, got her pregnant, n asked her to marry him when they was only together 5months. That hurted like hell becuz i loved him but i took him back thinkn it was worth the fight n he broke up wit me again for her. Mistakes are meant to make u wiser n more cautious n the future. Take the hint n do better for yourself. I did
2006-12-04 01:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on sexydoll3. He's using you just as he's using the other girls. Burn his a$$ in a flash and get a real boyfriend!!
2006-12-04 01:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by supressdesires 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on girl...he dumped you and said he doesn't love you. or you can make him work very hard to try to get you back, like being a total ***** - most expensive present and dates...payback time
2006-12-04 01:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by labrin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely u understand what they say "what is going around comes aroud" and if he did that to u probable it grow to be only a pay decrease back time yet do what u think of is stable bypass with what ur heart says
2016-10-13 23:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on from this guy once he breaks your heart chances are he will do it again HUGS
2006-12-04 01:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?? You couldnt love him after 4weeks, move on you will find someone who deserves you.
2006-12-04 01:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by Vada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont believe him, dont go back. once a cheater always a cheater. move on.
2006-12-04 01:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by smileygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋