What Do I do????

Question

My ex who left me 33 days ago, told me on Saturday that she made a big mistake..... She wants to get together tonight to talk, and I dont know what to do. I spent 2 years with this woman, and I miss her a great deal. I have been talking to someone new, and its nice to have someone, but that spark isn't there with the new girl. Do I give my ex a chance to make amends? Or do I stand her up and shut her out like she did to me? I am trying to not let my penis do the talking, but I don't know what to do.... HELP!!!!

Answer 1

you let her speak and you make sure before hand that you tell her you want LOT'S of time to process everything before you respond to her.
Here's the best pointers I can suggest to set the tone for tonight.
1) She's paying for dinner, not you. If she wants a chance to rectify, then she can pay all costs involved.
2) this is her time to speak. In a few days when you have processed what she says you can answer her comments. She doesn't even need to know how much you still care for now.
3) SHE LEFT. That was her choice, don't allow her to tell you what YOU did wrong.(You'll get a chance to address that later if need be)
4) Don't even think about mentioning the other girl(If she already knows, and asks- just say, "That's my business for now")
5) Don't end up in bed. Even if you ARE both consenting adults, you need to spend some time alone after she has said her peace.(If she stirs you up then find another piece to tap for the night.)

GL brother. its a damn tuff world to be looking for a good one in.

Answer 2

Defently try and make up with your ex if yall was together for 2 years then you should really try and make it work instead of being with someone you barely know and might end up not even being with that person in the long run and lose the one that you should really be with as in you ex. If she has realized that she loves you and wants to be with you, you should give her that last chance.

Answer 3

do u love her, want to spend the rest of ur life with her. if so then you need to gvie her another chance. but talk to her first and tell her exactly how you feel and make sure she is on the same page as you. make sure that if she says shes not sure about the future and you been together this long that you tell her you cant do it. no since in there being a chance of getting hurt again by the same person

Answer 4

If you still love her then meet with her and talk it out...do not have sex! See what she has to say and perhaps the two of you can make things work....I don't know what the circumstances were of the breakup but two years is a long time and it should be worth at least a conversation....good luck and you will make the right decision....trust your gut...not your penis.....

Answer 5

The question is do you want to take her back. why did she walk out on you in the first place, was it for another. If you truely miss her and want to try again go for it. but I would tell her the next time she walks out and does not tell me the reason, don't bother coming back. stay firm about it. You already know theres other girls. but if you want to try with this new girl go ahead. maybe in time that you get to know her . you will begin to like her more. but whatever you decide to do . let it be from your heart. good luck.

Answer 6

How old r u? Why did she leave u? Did she try her luck with some other guy, saw that it's not working and then came back to you? Think about it. Do you really want to have this role in her life? Saving her from being lonely? Be sure for one thing : what happened once, will happen again. If you accept her back she will leave you again...

Answer 7

talk to her first, give her a chance then decide