If your exgirlfriend (who dumped you & knew she broke your heart) kissed you on the lips many months after you split up, and hugged you closely for a few minutes, what would she want?
I gave her two chances to get back together again, although one was straight after we broke up and the other when she was with another guy. She knows I loved her and wanted her back, but now months on I've not bothered contacting her, but despite that, she tried to call 2 months on after we last saw each other (which was many months after we broke up). That call was 1 month ago, and I've since not bothered to call her back - I don't wanna get hurt...
What could she want by her call, and why would she kiss & hug me??
2006-12-04 00:45:22 · 9 answers · asked by James 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She just got kicked to the curb herself and now she is trying to crawl out of the gutter over the body of the very one she had kicked to the curb a few months ago.
2006-12-04 00:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen man stay your distance. Never look into anything a woman does because you will usually be wrong. She is an ex and my guess would be she just either wanted to flirt with you, see what you would do, or just plain torment you. I am under the belief that if anyone breaks up with you they need to make up with you. So until she says lets get back together and give the customary apology just take it for what it is....a hug and a kiss that's all.
2006-12-04 08:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she realized what she had after it was gone. I wouldn't be to quick to jump into a relationship with her again. People have a strange way of wanting what they don't have and then when they get it, realizing they didn't want it in the first place.
2006-12-04 08:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by AMC615 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what she wants. What I do know is that if she's saying it "physically" instead of verbally - she's not very bright. If the woman wants you back she should TELL YOU. If she's not smart and humble enough to tell you with words - and she chooses to just push herself on you physically and let you guess - then you don't really want her. Do you?
2006-12-04 08:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is trying to get back together. You are smart to stay away if you don't want to get hurt again, because she seems to be very unreliable.
2006-12-04 08:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to pay attention to her like you used to. Of course she probably does not want to get back together she just wants to be friends.
Ask her straight up if she wants to get back together otherwise she will just be using you.
2006-12-04 08:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by shadouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and stay as far away as possible. She's keeping you warm in case she needs you, but isn't really interested in being with you.
2006-12-04 08:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously missing what she kicked to the curb. You're obviously not going to fall for this right?
2006-12-04 08:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sory to say....it means, it is completely over. kiss and hug are part of her farewell goobye.
2006-12-04 08:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋