There are social services available that have experts in this area. DO NOT expect anyone to have the kind of answers that you need on here!! YOU are one of GOD's special creations!! He constructed man from the dust of the Earth. He created woman from the rib of man (Genesis 1). Your dad had NO RIGHT to treat you in that manner! HE WAS WRONG and WRONGED YOU in the process. I am sorry for this. DO NOT allow him to have that opportunity again. That does not mean that you can not be close to other people. ITmay mean that you need some assistance in getting back on track at this time. Begin be deciding where to get that help, set a time to go, and DO IT! This holiday can be a time of healing for you. GOD can help! Read and study HIS WORD. You are special. We all are according to HIM! HE gave HIS only SON so that we would have an opportunity to be in Heaven with HIM. Have a great holiday. Make it Your Time of HEALING!!
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2006-12-04 01:26:55
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answered by Eds 7
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First of all get some help for your depression...go see a family Dr and they can help you find the right thing to help you. Depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain and can get better with the right meds. Second I would talk to a counselor...you have been through alot and need an outside person to talk to about it. It really does help alot! These 2 things will get you on the right path to looking forward in your life instead of reliving your past hurts over and over again & letting it ruin you emotionally & eventually it will start to affect you physically if you let it keep going like it is. Moving forward in your life is for you...every new day you wake up is a new day to start over again. You have a great life to live & many memories...good ones to make. Get some help and start moving forward and put the past in the past. It will take hard work but you are worth it and can do it.
2006-12-04 00:55:56
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answered by vanhammer 7
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Always remember something; as a gurl your days in your father's house are numbered. So, your major concern should be how to start a relationship with a man you'll love and trust. If you can achieve that, then, all what you're going through now will soon be rolled away into a sea of the past. But I beg you to look for a guy with whom you share things in common - that's the guy you can really love and trust. Best of luck.
2006-12-04 00:50:02
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answered by mykemejeje 5
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I don't know how old you are, but you can report this abuse to the police to allow you to move on with your life. If you chose not to, then you need to look to avoid the situation until you can get out on your own. Just be careful that you don't fall into the trap of hooking up with guys that treat you the way your father did. There are many very nice guys out there that will treat you right!
2006-12-04 00:46:15
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answered by jeepguy_2x 5
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See a professional or go to a local support group... what you really need is to talk to someone who can listen to you and help you at the same time. I also suggest you call the NSPCC, they're a really big help, and it's confidential. They will help you move on and do what's best for you.
You need to get out of the situation to move on and lead a happy life (don't run away or anything, it would make matters worse, honey), so talk to someone soon, yeah?
Good luck mate. Luv ya!!!!
2006-12-04 00:54:02
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answered by TheAprilPuppet 2
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yea, move on gurl. life goes on and your sittin there lettin it go by while you're sittin in the dark. that was terrible of your father for what he did to u and he probably wanted to destroy your life and you're lettin him have that, u know? dont let him have that. u must forgive and forget and if not forget at least forgive. because god forgives us for all our sins and its only right we do the same to others. god has forgivin your father, u know. but it really does take a day at a time to get yourself back up on your feet and remember not everyone is the same as the last person, u know. jus hang i there and you'll be fine. best of luck. i would like to keep in touch with u, u know. so whenever u feel like it u can email me. my email is lilttbpimpin@yahoo.com
2006-12-04 00:53:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Please find some professional counseling immediately. Your family, all of them, are abusing you in different ways. You need to get out of that house as soon as possible. Stay with a friend, find someone through a church to help, just get out of there!
You are worthy and, once you've left them behind, you will start to heal. Good luck to you!
2006-12-04 00:49:07
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answered by tcbtoday123 5
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COUNSELING. You have every right to be angry, and that does not go away after a good nights sleep. There is a lot you have to deal with and you need help, someone that is not in the family that will listen to you and help you work through all that is going on.
2006-12-04 00:47:14
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answered by ladyc 4
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Firstly I am so sorry for you but there is only a way that u can get out you must be willing to do something and have professional help, otherwise you just deteriate by being depressed
Good luck and my prayers are here for you. Have courage and see somebody.
2006-12-04 00:48:57
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answered by Justine T 2
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Well, you don't just "move on". You didn't say what kind of abuse. You should find a qualified person to talk with. If you don't have money, go to a public mental health clinic. If they have a psychologist (not just a counselor) at school, talk to them.
2006-12-04 00:46:30
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answered by Anonymous
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