Does anybody else think that flirting and posting sexual references to other people is wrong when you are in a serious relationship? Has anyone else experienced this problem? What did you do about it?
2006-12-04 00:42:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man, that's pathetic.
He should respect your feelings on this. Have you told him how you feel? Some couples think that "look but don't touch" is an okay system for a relationship, and some find it helps stop them from physically cheating. However, not everyone is comfortable with that (I wouldn't be and neither would my partner).
If you tell him it upsets you, and he still does it, then his actions are telling you that he clearly cares more about flirting with a computer screen than he does your feelings. When that time comes, you have to ask yourself if he's mature enough to be in the relationship with you.
2006-12-04 01:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll let you in on a little secret. He is just your boyfriend. unless you both love each other and/or married, don't worry about what he is doing. Since he is flirting on Myspace, that means that he is not happy with the relationship he is in. So, you need to look at what you are doing wrong and not him. Perhaps you think it is a serious relationship but he does not. If it pisses you off this bad, dump him and find someone else.
2006-12-04 00:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a serious relationship, he is not. He has very little respect for the relationship you do have and no matter how hard you try you cannot change him. He does no see what he is doing as wrong, and it is.
2006-12-04 00:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by ladyc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is something people do when they are not feeling satisfied in their current relationship. Perhaps you should discuss things with your BF to see what is troubling him.
2006-12-04 00:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it were me in that situation, I wouldn't hesitate to move on and find another girlfriend.
If it bothers you now, it will bother you for the remainder of your relationship.
2006-12-04 00:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my current beau doesnt. but a previous one did. it caused stress in the relationship even tho he insisted it was joking around with friends. it didnt last....
2006-12-04 00:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let him know it disturbs you and he should stop doing it because he cares more for you than someone he has never met
2006-12-04 00:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Delete his account!
2006-12-04 00:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by ♪ Jackielynn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's wrong.
2006-12-04 00:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flag his a.s.s. over and over till they delete his account
2006-12-04 00:46:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋