Me and my ex have been broken up for a year the relationship was abusive so we went our separate ways I have since had boyfriends and he has had girlfriends but whenever something goes wrong in our life we use eachother as a way to try to get over stuff he has my name tatooed on him and he says he can't love anyone else I don't want to hurt no ones feelings but I feel he is out to get me. We have recently fooled around with eachother again , but this time i feel like I don't want it to happen anymore , part of that is because I feel he will try to get me pregnant on on purpose or something.I also have heard rumors of things that he is doing out in the streets and the stuff does not sound like him but I feel like I don't know him anymore anyway. I really want to move forward with my life but all of my new realtionships don't last I feel like me and him have unfinished business I just have a very bad anxiety problem and I am going to worry myself crazy about what to do I am really scared
2006-12-04 00:34:35 · 5 answers · asked by mcqmnc329 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know perfectly well what to do. Do ANYTHING YOU CAN to get away from this man. He has abused you in the past and is continuing to do so. He has destroyed your confidence in yourself by his abuse and that is why you are anxious and scared. Don't be. There are agencies out there who can help you. But you must leave him - on this occasion, do not listen to your heart but to your head: you know this relationship is all wrong and you must end it, now.
2006-12-04 00:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your self-esteem is low and he is a controlling. If you really don't feel like going back why take the chance. Don't go back.
Maybe your other relationships don't work because you don't give them a chance. He calls and I'm positive your relationship goes down hill because you hung up on what is going wrong for him that that is all you talk about. Who wants to take the backseat to a past abusive relationship.
Get some help, Speak with a counselor to get some confidence that you don't need this man.
2006-12-04 00:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you guys broke up for a reason. in your words, "the relationship was abusive so we went out separate ways." abusers are good at what they do; maybe you do have "unfinished business," but do you really think that continuing to see him (and, moreover, mess around with him) will help it to be resolved? theres a chance that your anxiety could be related to your dependence on him...abusers have a way of getting you to be dependent on them, and leaving them is difficult and anxiety producing sometimes because they have basically trained you, through the cycle of abuse, to be dependent on them. your relationship with him is undoubtedly unhealthy. stay away from him....
2006-12-04 00:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by christina rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into a restraining order...
2006-12-04 00:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by sheila_0123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST STAY AWAY FROM HIM
HE WILL NEVER CHANGE
2006-12-04 00:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋