how can i last longer?

Question

me and my girlfriend have been having sex a few months now. Between my hands and my mouth i can get her off as many times as i want and they are pretty intense. But i cant seem to get her off with my"thing" its not small or anything but she just isnt that sensative down there. And i can last as long as i want if i take it at a decent pace or if i do the start and stop method, but she dosent like that to much, and i know most girls need outside stimulation also to get off, but she hates it when i us "it" and my hands at the same time, the only way she likes it is with my raming the hell out of her but this is also the only thing that gets me going way to quickly, she dosnt mind because ill still get her off a few times with my hands and stuff but i want to do it the way every one elts does it and make her happy. Can any one tell me of a way to make me last longer or direct me to a site or something that teaches u to porlong everything. i would really apreciate it.

Answer 1

Guys are not designed to last long. A man's semen has to come out to propagate the race. all the duration talk is created by women

Answer 2

The external stimulation is the key. As you are inside, your movements are not affecting the external clitoral stimulation that she craves. The vigorous sex tends to help with the external stimulation which she enjoys, but this will also intensify the experience you have. As such, there is not much that you can do aside from using some sort of "pleasure management" techniques that you've already discussed or a de-sensitizing cream.

I would not let this get to you though, as you are pleasuring her before you are pleasured, so each of you is getting to orgasm during the sexual experience. It's noble that you want to be able to last longer, but that only happens with multiple takes in a porn video. Don't let it get you down. Enjoy the experience and keep your GF happy!

Answer 3

There is something called the "Million Dollar Spot".
A rich american went to a place where there were "sex masters" and they told him they had a secret spot that would let you as logn as you wanted without blowing. The american decided to pay 1 million dolalrs for them to tell him so they did.

If you apply pressure on the small tubes going from your testicles to your penis nothing will get through. If your getting a lapt dance and you take a ping pong balla nd sit on it you can be ridden all night without giving in at all. It may take some practice but eventually you will get it. Good luck! I hope it finally works out for you.

Answer 4

I don't think more, longer vaginal stimulation is the answer here, not all women are going to climax with vaginal stimulation alone. If you really think lasting longer will help try putting on a condom or two it should reduce your sensitivity. I think you should try a grinding motion instead of just an in and out motion or get her to stimulate herself while your ramming her, tell her that it turns you on seeing her touch herself.

Answer 5

sound like to me you are not the problem at all ,wow lucky girl all that attention ,here is the problem she is used to oral orgasms ,and you and her both need to stop so much of that and let her body learn to have one with you inside her .to much outer playing will do nothing but train her body to have to have that to climax.playing with her alot to get her close is important but dint go all the way with it enter her before she does .good luck .

Answer 6

why not try different positions like you sitting at sorta 90degree angle and her ontop i belive that can privide outside stimulation at the same time well that what one girl told me it was her fav pos because of this.